He asks for way too much and just because we are younger he is a bit mean to us and plus, over the years he has been fleeing away from us and being with all his friends and i really think he is learning things from them and i feel he wants to be with his friends more then his family =(
2006-07-26 17:15:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so far, i really like the answers! thanks so much!
2006-07-26 17:20:27 · update #1
I AM 12 YEARS!
2006-07-26 17:23:35 · update #2
Well sorry to say this but it sounds like he is a typical teenager. Eventually he will grow out of it. But at that age kids are very self-centered and believe the world should revolve around them.
2006-07-26 17:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by clover31776 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 15 year people act like that.....
I have a 15 year old cousin and he is really unbearable..He thinks he has the right to call me names on public....They think they own the world and are usually disrespectfull to others.
You should ignore him so eventually he will get tired of that. Talk to your parents and tell them you're concerned about the way your older brother treats you.
2006-07-26 17:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by carlosdavid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your mother speak with him asking him to help all of you by attending your family matters, advise him to guide his youngsters. If needed, create a drama that you all (his youngsters) go out and meet your friends too and come late than him etc. (but don't really get involved in that line) so that he will come to rescue you. Also make sure he is not going to get any support (financial) from the family if he doesn't turn back. Most importanly pray to God to make him understand matters!!! Good Luck and respond to me if it works.
2006-07-26 17:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by OPTIMIST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart it's really not YOUR JOB to make get your older brother in line it's your mom's....she needs to lay the smack down on his a$$ hard. If I was his mother I would totally strip his room of EVERY THING except for a sheet and he would have to BEHAVE his way back to earning his box spring, mattress, pillows, sheets, clothing, tv, game boy, meals, and time out of the house.
2006-07-26 17:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop him. He's fifteen. It's called puberty and hormones. He WILL, however, grow out of it, and you will find that your brother will be your best friend.
And actually, one day, you may do the same thing. Your friends are another sort of family, and right now, at this stage in his life, he feels closer to his friends than he does his family.
It will get better, I promise!!
2006-07-26 17:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you could always reach out and let him know how you feel. But, unless your mom demands his obedience and respect---you my dear may just have to see how the cards fall. I don't know your age---but at 15 your friends are your life and you think nothing else matters but the moment. Be supportive and let him know that your family needs him. Perhaps he does not feel like he has any responsibilites or ties that hold him to you guys.....i wish you all the best!
2006-07-26 17:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to desperatly communicate to medical doctors or councellors please do it i encourage you! i'm so sorry to right here about how puzzling it is been for you. Your mam definatly shouldnt artwork with the elderly at present! She may be able to contained in the destiny yet your mam needs a lot of help please do not forget that. i ought to also propose you to ask for councelling because you've had an truly rocky highway. they're staggering and also you ought to be stunned at how a lot they could help you. You sound so amazing and that i applaude you for having the flexibility to regulate so truly. you want to get help for no longer purely the sake of you yet your brothers and sisters that feels like you dearly love. also do it on your mam because she may no longer be able to regulate or help herself however it is truly puzzling to understand. properly executed you and solid success for the destiny x
2016-10-15 06:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pent up hormones. but i agree with the others he needs a good *** whoopin and probably some bootcamp or a morgue visit. maury style...you know. but he's 15 he's a teenager and needs some.
2006-07-26 17:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by importance of being wilde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and dont react to him when he does thesethings. People only continue doing things wrongful things because they get attention from doing it. Don't react and he wont act
2006-07-26 17:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your Mom to get some pamphlets for boarding school's or boot camps.
2006-07-26 17:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋