Depression help?

Question

I am 35 years old and I own my own business. I am married for the 3rd tand we have a 3 year old. I am having so many problems with passing my drivers license test (i don't understand why...lol), and for being a business owner, my work is very hard because I am the "supplier" of the family. Sometimes money comes in great, and other times we are barely making it, and it really stresses me out. I also have a truck that I can't afford to fix b/c I just bought my wife a new car (should I have not done that)? Either way she needed one, but should I have waited until my truck was out of the shop? What can overcome depression in my situation?

Also:

My wife is very loyal and honest to me, but I am always angry towards her. I take my stress out on her when I get home from work. I don't hit or beat her or anything like that, its just verbal. Well she told me she wasn't happy anymore, so the next day I took another lady out on a date (to me and my wife's spot). What does that mean?

Answer 1

You need to take a good hard look at yourself. How important is your wife to you? Your behavior could cost you your family. I get the impression from what you have posted that you and your wife do not always make good financial decisions. Money worries cause stress and depression and also are a major cause for arguments in marriage. Sit down when you both are calm. Seek help getting you finances in order, that may take some of the stress an anger away. Talk to your wife ask her why she is not happy. I could be the stress and the way you speak towards her. Sometimes the things we say can be more hurtful that a slap.

Answer 2

Well, what many people don't really want to admit, is that the whole economy is in a depression -- if you own your own business, and especially if it's tied to something productive -- like, for example, construction, or engineering, or agriculture etc -- you're going to be having a particularly bad time, because there are larger forces at work, primarily the big financial interests, that can gobble up the small businesses. So, the stresses that you and your wife are experiencing, are not simply because of stresses in the relationship. Try to get active in your community / chamber of commerce / political activity -- WITH your wife. Show her that her opinions and ideas mean something to you.

When you find that you're about to get verbally abusive with her, count to 10, and start thinking, 'how important is this, in the big scheme of things??!' Take your wife on a date. Schedule a weekend together. Learn to see her strengths. Say things to her, like, "What I really love about you is...." Ask her how you can help more with raising your child. Think about what you can do, to give that child a real future. If you see your activity as vital and necessary for those around you, you may have difficult times, but you won't get depressed and self-centered about it.

Answer 3

well its all about stress and hard work that's why you feel so tired,
True depression--mental illness--is not just the blues or a bad day. It is a chemical illness that can have tragic results. Some forms of depression can affect the body before the person "feels depressed". For example, depression can start with sleep disturbances . well to over come this problem you need some treatment. well go and look it your self..its good
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Answer 4

It means you cheated in my book, you should have talked to her and seen if you could have taken her to ya'lls spot. This could have made her feel better, just remember she is the one honest and loyal and you are the one coming home and taking everything out on her. It sounds like to me she hasn't done anything but be a good mom and wife. It wouldn't be so funny if she was doing as your doing to her..So I think you need to get your stuff in line and be good to her before you wake up a lonely man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

means your a loser.