Girls: Do you think that your boyfriend looks at pornography?

Question

Do you think it's cheating, wrong, unhealthy, un normal?

Do you think men and women approach sex differently?

Answer 1

no boyfriend

btoo

Answer 2

Well, if he does, you need to drop him. Any man that will look at other women while they're supposed to be faithful to one woman is cheating on the woman he's with. It doesn't matter if "the other woman" is in a magazine or not. He's still taking away the intimacy, time, effort and exertion to be with a magazine or a movie instead of the person he's committed to.

Let's say your husband (or these days "boyfriend) tells you that pornography is a great way to "spice" up your love life. Well, what he's saying is, "You're not very exciting for me anymore, so I need to look at other women, prostitutes, that sell themselves for sex." Gosh, doesn't that give a lady a warm and fuzzy feeling?

Pornography in any form is emotional cheating, psychological cheating, and if indulged for long enough periods of time can desensitize a man from having a true physical relationship with a woman that is not airbrushed and in a magazine or on a screen. The woman who will indulge this fantasy is nothing more than a masterbation tool.

Good luck with a long-term relationship being a vibrator for about a minute and a half.

Answer 3

I don't know if he does. He's an incredibly sexy and sensual lover, which starts in the mind. I think most pornography isn't really geared that way.

I guess I wouldn't be surprised if he does, but it's not something that's come up. I guess I prefer not knowing if he does.

As far as different approaches to sex - in general, yes, I've heard that usually women are more romantic, and men want to "get right to it."

My experience? The men that I've had the most in common with on a personal level have also been the most compatible with me sexually. My current boyfriend is definitely the best lover I've had, and the two of us "click" on many different levels, right down to this uncanny thing we do where I'll answer a question that he's only thinking.

And the worst lover I ever had was a guy I dated who I had almost nothing in common with. So I guess it's a matter of being "in sync" with someone.

Answer 4

Yes my boyfriend looks at porn and I don't think it's wrong unhealthy or cheating. It's not something that takes time away from "us" and he's not wanting to be in a relationship with any of the people. There are a lot of different sexual activities people do that could be considered not normal however if both people are ok with it then why does it matter if it's normal to anyone else. If you seriously have a problem with a boyfriend looking at porn I think a discussion is in order. Find out what he feels about it and you should see there are no real feelings behind it.

As for men and women approaching sex differently, I think it was evolutionary for men to want to be with as many women as possible and for women to find the most suitable partner for child bearing. However now that evolution is not necessarily key differences could be attributed to roles. When engaging in sexual activities some people have set roles in mind and activities that are supposed to happen. Some people however do not necessarily feel they have to conform to these roles and act however they want. I believe that if you communicate with your partner about what you want then you can both achieve what you want.

Answer 5

if you think looking at porn is cheating, then you are on crack.

i don't have a boyfriend, but my girlfriend isn't much for porn because she's a film student and porn is so badly made.

generally speaking, men and women approach sex differently, but that means *very* generally. for example, i love porn, typically male, but i connect love and sex very strongly and i am monogomous, typically female. my girlfriend likes erotic stories more, typically female, but she craves sex at least once a day with as many different partners as possible, typically male. she mainly sticks to me now, but i don't care if she has sex with some random girl if i'm not around. i know that she is not like me; she is like most guys in that she disconnects love and sex entirely.

i think most relationships would work a lot better if we weren't so uptight about monogamy. random sex really is meaningless for a lot of people, mostly guys. it's not for me, i can't even enjoy kissing someone i don't have feelings for, but i understand that it is for my partner and thus i don't feel threatened. i am who she cares about and she will always choose me over some random trick.

so getting hung up about pornography? unless they are shunning you for the computer... wtf? they're not even real!!!

Answer 6

I know my boyfriend looks at porn. He told me. I look at porn too. Sometimes, we watch it together. It's perfectly normal and healthy.

I think men and women do approach sex differantly, but with a little communication, it isn't hard to find common ground. :)

Answer 7

I'm not going to lie.. I have before, I get sick from it :x.. it is gross but what ever lol
I think that would make it wrong for me to tell him not to look at porn... I have, so that would make me a hypocrite. I don't have a boyfriend , I'm just telling you what I would do... I also think it's normal since just about everyone has done it / or does it...

Answer 8

Yes, they approach sex differently. Yes, my boyfriend looks at porn. I make porn for him to look at too, and it's his favorite! I think it is healthy and normal and not cheating.

Answer 9

Yes guys warch porn. ( That is kinda like asking if fish swim. )
That is what it is for. There is nothing wrong with it. I watch it too. get over it and grow up.

Cheating? -no
wrong?-no
un-normal? -- no
men & women approach sex diff? -- yes but we all love it.

Answer 10

for my section, staring at porn have no effect in your self self assurance or sexual self assurance. he's displaying it to you and doing it in front of you because of the fact to him this is no longer which you do no longer turn him on, this is just one thing new and exciting to savour jointly. i beg you to observe some with him, try to act out the comparable scenes jointly on a similar time as this is enjoying. So what if he offered a fleshlight, lube it up and help him out with it. in line with risk make a journey to the relaxing zone and get somewhat some thing for your self that he can use on you concurrently. you will smash this dating via making irrational demands based on your insecurities. If any of the stuff i reported isn't eye-catching to you in any respect, then i could say enable him circulate and circulate on inclusive of your existence. you heavily isn't waiting to alter this component to him, nor could you prefer to.

Answer 11

I know he does, it makes me feel at time self conscious but i just get over it. He has them in his restroom, bedroom and kitchen.
It is not cheating, wrong or unhealthy. It turns me on when he gets hard looking at dirty magazines, he is not banging those whores, he is banging little ME!!!! LOL