how do i move on? I been in A realtionship for about 2 year and i love him so much and i cant get over it i cry at least 30 times a day and i always wonder what did i do he said he had to find him self and if i loved him i would give him time he time he hasent goneon any dates or talk to any other girl but i keep beating my self up over it and i cant keep going off and on i love him so much though i have never loved another guy he told me so much about how much he loves me and and wants to be with me and he said he is coming back just give him a bit to reizle what he has but i dont know if i can let him back???
2006-07-26 16:54:12 · 10 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Huh?
2006-07-26 16:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by yoohoosusie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first take 3 days n tell urself that after that its over no more bs.first day cry,scream,bon fire all the crap from the relationship,whatever u need 2 do.the second day pamper urself.do whatever it takes 2 feel good.
the third day make a plan of what new things u would like 2 do n see.places that u can start going 2.
now everytime after the third day that u start 2 think about the old relationship stop urself. n force urself 2 think of something else. then start rewarding urself by going 2 places on ur list n making sure you meet atleast 2 new people each time.
before u know it u will have moved on.good luck
2006-07-26 17:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people are struggling in relationships and one
needs times out. Give it to them - why- their problem may have nothing to do with you but a problem resulting from past situations or home upbringing that havent been resolved.
Relationships must be mutual. If you have to force things to fit
or spend a lot of time convincing the other person that it will work
out - that a warning - Beware of the circumstances - and weigh what's going to make you happy-- Love works out only when he treats you like a queen and you can treat him like a king.
Move on - if you are the one who is always clinging - Let him run after you - but in the meantime go have FUN!
2006-07-26 17:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by spiritlifestyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts, but you already knew that. Look I really respect him here for being honest with you. If he is genuine and needs time to sort things out isnt that a good thing. Maybe he wants something long term, and is not really sure. I am sure it is just as painful for him. My advice to you is don't sit at home and dwell on it. You need to move on with other priorties and goals in your life. Perhaps even meet for casual dates with others. If you two are meant to be, then it shall be. You can't live on what could have been or could possibly be. Just be yourself, and try and focus on your future. Stop trying to figure him out, he obviously has some issues that he needs to sort out and respects you enough to tell you.
2006-07-26 17:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to give it a little time, but you should take advantage of the time yourself. You should find out who you are without him. You never know you may decide something different than you thought. Do stuff and rebuild who you are. Then he will see what he's missing and that you know life does go on without him. And that you are a strong enough person to accept it and go on.
2006-07-26 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by clover31776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand you love him you have not seen other people but you don't want him back??? Why? If you do want to move on than you need to take a step back from this guy time heals lots of wounds and distance from each other makes it easier in the meantime. I sense upsettings but do you have depression? Consult your doctor if you get really down and it doesn't fade.
2006-07-26 16:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why should you wait for him to find himself?
Tell him that while he is taking the time to find himself you'll be spending your time finding someone else.
I'm worried that he won't return and if that is the case then why should you waste your time waiting on him?
2006-07-26 17:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting involved in some things that you love to do so you stop thinking about him so much. Play tennis or something.
2006-07-26 17:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player move on with your life ok it isnt wort the pain you can do better belive me on this mater lifes to short to waste on him ok. my opion?
2006-07-26 17:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes wit another chic or hed be wantin to hang wit u
2006-07-26 17:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋