♥I'm not sure if i'm Bi or not but i have a boyfriend but i'm really atracted to girlz how can you tell if your Bi or not someone help me please i'm so confused!!!♥
2006-07-26 16:54:01 · 16 answers · asked by lil kisses 15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Are you attracted to males and females?
Can you envision yourself being intimate with both sexes?
Can you envision yourself in a committed relationship with both sexes?
If you answered yes to all three, you're probably bisexual. If you answered yes to the first two, you're probably bi-curious. If you answered yes only to the first one, you're probably straight.
2006-07-26 17:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am honestly confused as well. I think that if we fantasize about other girls in sexual ways, then we can be bi. We can also be bi if we can carry out a relationship with another girl. You can also have a preference for either gender. Like I can definitely say I like girls, but I like guys better in a way so that would be bi with a preference for girls. It really is gut feeling. Talking to other people who are confused or already have been through this stage really helps. Knowing that there are other girls just as confused makes me feel a lot better and should make you feel better, too. Good luck and you can email me anytime for a good chat :)
2006-07-27 00:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sexually attracted to other girls, you're at least bicurious. You might be bisexual, but it's hard to tell -that's something you really have to determine for yourself. It's made more difficult by the fact that you have a boyfriend & probably don't want to cheat on him to find out.
2006-07-27 00:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are straight. Your "attraction" to girls is either curiosity, or an infatuation of the female form or fashion.
Maybe you could help me though. I'd like to screw George W. Bush every way possible. Maybe I'm gay? Or maybe just because I'm an American taxpayer?
2006-07-27 01:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be just fantasizing, you're the ultimate judge. If you do try it you'll know weather you're bi or not. If you feel to uncomfortable to even try it then you're probably not.
Tammi Dee
2006-07-27 00:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are their things that u refuse to do with one sex but will do it without hesitation with the other...like having sex...If so u are not Bi But rather gay or straight
2006-07-27 00:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Linked site from the Human Rights Campaign about being bisexual. You could also look at info on YouthResource.
http://www.hrc.org/Content/NavigationMenu/Coming_Out/Get_Informed4/Coming_Out_as_Bi/Coming_Out_as_Bisexual.htm
It's fine to be questioning, don't freak out, it's going to be ok.
2006-07-27 08:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be bicurious. Do you feel sexually attracted to girls as well? Just finding a girl hot may not mean more than you appreciate both genders.
2006-07-27 00:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in reality only you know the answer to this..but I think you may be a little too young to be trying to make this distinction.
2006-07-27 00:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a Brazilian writer his name is Paulo Coelho. he was in doubt if he was a gay or not. And he checked it out. he had sex with another man. he didn't like that experience and drop out that idea. this is true.
2006-07-27 01:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by diced tomatoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋