Why do so many idiots on here keep insisting that premarital sex is wrong?

Answer 1

Because they believe what the Bible tells them. They do not think for themselves, but rather follow a set of rules in a book that is older than old. They need something in their lives to show them how to live because they aren't secure enough to do it themselves. Therefore they belive that premarital sex is a sin and refuse to do it. However, when the do get married they may realize that they bought the car without test driving it.

Answer 2

I have never said it was wrong, in fact if you are both seasoned players (already sexually experienced) then I think it's may not be such a bad idea to give it a "trial run"...or two.

However, women think like women, and all of our lives we have been told to save ourselves, to not give it up easy, to make the man work for it...uh the only way I can think of to make him really WORK for it, is to keep it to myself until he has slayed dragons and pummeled all of my enemies to bits! *laughing*...That's stupid because I like sex myself, and I would be punishing myself unless while that guy was out slaying dragons and getting my enemies, I was at home practicing a self gratification thing.

Now if both are virgins and intend to only remain with each other no matter what and be bound in marriage til death do they part, and they have remained virgins for that specific reason, why do you want to have those first clummsy sexual experiences with two virgins without KNOWING that you have the commitment FIRST! So only in that case might I suggest celibacy before marriage, I mean people like that do exist. (I think they are called Amish?) (No offense intended, please.)

As women we are also told by many of our peers that a man who gets sex before marriage will drop you like a hot potato, and he won't ever buy the cow if he can get the milk for free....

My big campaign is to make anyone who chooses to be sexually active to also be ready for the responsibilities that come with sex. I think EVERY ONE should wear condoms, unless you are VERY certain that the partner may not have an incurable disease like HIV, Hep C, or Herpes. Condoms and spermicide unless you WANT to have a baby. And unless you have the test result in your paws, from the VD clinic that says the person is NOT infected with something you DO NOT know if they are "clean". THAT is the ONLY way to know and even then HIV can lay dormant in a carrier's system without being able to be detected for a long time, so sex is fine, just don't be foolish and take a chance on catching a disease or making a baby that you may not want.

Good luck, and have fun! There is no such thing as restoring your viginity once that is gone, it cannot be returned. Women who are reluctant to have sex prior to marriage are probably thinking about all of that bad reputation/cow and milk thing? No my advice on this matter may not represent what God thinks, or what I ought to think because I am a middle aged bitty, but so what? This is just my opinion.

Answer 3

If you recognize that as idiotic,,,they say it takes one to know one.

Because the the Bhagavad-gita, the Zenda Vesta, the Torah, the Gospel, the Qu'ran and the Baha'i Writings all agree that is wrong.

The sexual act is, perhaps, the most sacred act to be enjoyed within the fortress of well-being--marriage. The moment of climax is one's most vulnerable moment. You have the soul of your partner at your disposal. If the marriage commitment hasn't been made, and of one of you falls in love and the other, not, one of you could have another's suicide on your conscience.

Sex is powerful stuff. Not to be played with. Not a game. It procreates life. And death (in the case of AIDS).

Don't think it takes too much common sense to look around at the unwanted babies, abortions, AIDS, broken marriages, broken homes, broken dreams, wrong marriages, because they thought it was love, when it was only lust, unfinished educations, etc. from the "if it feels good, do it" philosophy.

I think the Holy Books of all the religons know more about these things than you or I--and they agree--verboten!

And I should listen to you?

And, btw, if we're such idiots, why are you asking us? Unless, deep within, you already know the answer. Why are you running from the answer? That the only thing you got going on in your life? If so,,,GET one! (A life, that is.)

Life isn't sex. Sex is the dessert of life. Life is much more serious, and exciting! The reason sex outside of marriage ends up in so much sorrow, is that everyone is eating too much dessert--no dinner. So, everyone is getting sick--immediate sick and long-term sick. Ruining their lives, for a few moments of pleasure.

Answer 4

Depends on your upbringing and moral values.......sometimes it may be a medical issue, other times it may be a religious issue that keeps people from "DOING IT" before they are married.......IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN, there is nothing wrong with you....YOU JUST HAVE NOT FOUND THE RIGHT PERSON TO SHARE your body with.......IS IT WRONG? WELL, if you asked people on the street, I think more people would be embarrassed to answer your question......IS premarital sex wrong for YOU??? Well, it seems like you have your mind set on "DOING IT" .......so go for it, just remember to wear a raincoat......and clean yourself up.......YOU NEVER KNOW WHO THE OTHER PERSON HAS BEEN WITH OR HOW MANY...........AND SOME PEOPLE LIE, LIE LIE LIE LIE AND LIE.........are "THEY" idiots if they do not want to do it before they are married,,,,no not really,,,,,it depends on the persons involved......GOOD LUCK AND MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU AND ALL THE OTHERS HERE who are too young, too immature, or just not on the same wavelength as you are...........PEACE OUT!!!!!!

Answer 5

Cause it is!

May you have six daughters when you finally get married and may all of them at the age of 14 go out with 16 year old boys who have cars!

That'll teach ya!

The strange things is 80% of the world claims to be religious and all of their religions forbid pre-marital sex (and you think that keeps it from happening!)

Duh! So the average man has over 12 women in his lifetime sexualy and the average women has almost 10. Remember that. You are #10 in your wife's list!

That make you feel good to know there were 9 before you!

Answer 6

It is wrong unless you are completely protected. Unmarried couples have little idea what the other person's sexual history is and if they have any STDs or any other things wrong with him/her. Not to mention possible pregnancy. IMO, people should wait to risk these until they know they are both completely clean and they know they can handle pregnancy and raising a child until deciding to have sex. Plus, sex should be between two people who love each other. Marriage is the ultimate showing of that.

Answer 7

For some people of faith, sex is a special shared activity, reserved for those who are married to one another.

Others treat sex like something they get at a fast food restaurant.

It is a decision that the individual must make for themselves.

Answer 8

have you ever thought that maybe you are an idot for thinking that it airight to have sex with who ever when ever. To some ppl it is something special that they want to save for ther husband or wife. Besides who knows what you can catch that ajax wont take off. Its safe, and it has to do with ppls religons and morals. Ever heard of the only safe sex is no sex?

Answer 9

Only because they don't know how good it feels. Once they have sex they might just change tracks. I didn't wait till I got married and I wouldn't do it over again. I love having sex.

Answer 10

I think it is and that does not make me an idiot by the way. I think if people valued themselves and their virginity, they wouldn't give it away except to the person they marry.

Answer 11

I don't think that its wrong. I wish that I hadn't though because I married my husband and really hoped that I could have shared that experience with him because I love him. Girls just want to be careful nowadays - guys use them and lose them ya know?!