kay so im 14 not to be vain but im cute and petite..not the biggest boobs or butt, by the way is that okay since im small? im only 5'1 soo anyways how do i get boys attention and get more boys to talk to me
2006-07-26 16:38:39 · 22 answers · asked by bionca 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
great question. i see it all the time. if you want a real man and not some immature kid, respect yourself. you dont even have to be the friendliest. just dont act like a slut, dance like youre a stripper, or talk like youre trying to have someone come and attack you and make out with you. if you want the wrong guys... the ones who only want girls for sex, who treat girls like trash, and talk to girls like theyre just pieces of paper, throw them out and have a new one every week, then go ahead and do everything i just told you not to do. you will be very disrespected this way, will have little friends, and girls watning to fight you all the time. i know you want to be with someone right now, but dont chose to be trashy, chose to be classy. hope this helps!!
2006-07-26 16:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by scrappy06 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
When you are walking by smile sincerely looking him straight in the eyes( and I know the butterflies will be there and sometimes you might get flush [turn red] And just lip sink HI!, then the next time smile and look him in the eyes and turn your head to follow his eyes as if you were checking him out the next time say hi and make sure you are closer to him maybe a brush of the arm and then if there is no reaction or follow through on his part YA HAVE TO REALLY GO UP TO HIM AND say "Hey whats up" and if that doesn't work find someone else
Hope this helped in some way good luck and don't settle for less than you deserve. No need to just have a boy friend if he doesn't care how you feel I MEAN IT
2006-07-26 23:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 5'1 also (24 now) but I have lots of experience with guys and believe it or not most guys love petite women! All you have to do is try to have confidence and definately go up and talk to them. They will be flattered that you are interested in having a converstation with them. Trust me it works!
2006-07-26 23:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the latest issue of comsopolitian.. and find yourself some info.. try wearing a shorter skirt because it appears to make your legs look longer, wear a pushup bra and a medium cut shirt to show some cleavage.. this appears to make your chest look bigger.. wear heels if u wish to make yourself look taller.. and as how to catch guys attention.. imma be a matter of factly.. guys give girls attention naturally based on looks. as much as i hate to admit it.. how many times do u see some uber fat chick or some unpleasing looking girl get a guy (based on the fat that the guy himself isn't ugly either and isn't desperate) Its a natural thing thats hardwired into us.. around 80 percent would be looks and 20 percent personality.. first of all if we don;t think u look good in the beginning, we won't bother to approach. Next is half the guys are too pussy to approach so if u like a guy. just walk past him or something.. and stare at him.. if he stares back for around 1 second and drops his stare and doesn't turn to look back, then he doesn't like your looks. however if he stares at u for 1 second drops his stare for approximately one more second and immediately looks at you again.. u can tell at least you past the physicaly looks aspect.. now all u have to do it talk to him.. just start normal conversations and don't be nervous..
2006-07-26 23:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Haikin L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off at 14 you shouldn't evne be worried about that, second is a boy is worth your time he'll notice you for you, not your organs, oh yeah plz dont ever flaunt yourslef or let guys use and abuse you.
2006-07-26 23:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by University Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need any guys attention soo bad? Cant you just have fun being a young girl? I mean dont you have hobbies or sports you enjoy?
2006-07-26 23:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shud always hv a cool smart look wit a slight smile.ur well mannerd dressin sense n walkin style. n nt any kind of stupid shoe off of ur body wit good fraganance perfume
2006-07-26 23:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what?
Like the dude above said..
All you gotta do is to be you and smile.
A pleasant personality can get you noticed in a flash.
Be natural.
2006-07-26 23:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Dress stylish, but not slutty. And be knowledgable on things boys find interesting (cars and sports come to mind)
2006-07-26 23:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself sweetheart. You'll attract the ones who most genuinely like you. And don't be in a hurry! QUALITY not quantity!
2006-07-26 23:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lost Panda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋