She wants to have a girls night with me. I would like some advice on what to do. I'm worried about how I will perform. I'm not a lesbian I'm just by courious
2006-07-26 16:26:30 · 18 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is my best advice.
1) Relax "she's just as nervous as you are...."
2) Obviously she wants you, sounds like she initiated it!
3) Touch her exactly how you would want her to touch you
4) This is not a race! Go slow and enjoy the scenery!
5) Do not assume that she will have thought about protection. Yes, lesbians and bisexual women should still be concerned about protection if they are not in a long term, monogomous relationship! You can go to your local adult store and buy a box of dental dams. the box will have instructions. USE them! You don't want the gift that will keep on giving!
6) Don't do anything that you don't feel comfortable doing! Who says this will end up with sex? Yes, the possibility is high, but you can always say "time out" or even "not now!"
7) Have fun! This is a new experience, and one I would (if I were you) treat as if it were with a guy. It's sex, fer cryin' out loud. Sex should be fun and enjoyable...No matter who your partner is,
Good luck!
2006-07-26 18:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kinda sounds like you're curious for reasons other than those of your own real self. I'm pretty sure that booking an appointment isn't the way to go about it. If this is what YOU desire, the opportunity will present and that's when to go with what feels right and good to both of you.
2006-07-26 16:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...are you attracted to her and is there mutual consent on having sex with each other. Second...take it slow by kissing and then ask each other if both of you want to go further. Lastly, take it from there and just go with it naturally. You and her will be the only ones to make this choice. Enjoy it and don't let anyone tell you different. Go with your heart girl!
2006-07-26 17:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by SacGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to do it, then don't.
if you do want to do it, then don't worry. just relax and enjoy, and be sure to speak up. there is nothing more irritating than a girl who won't say what she does or does not like, who stays quiet. judge how you are doing by your partner's reactions. if something doesn't seem to be working, just try something else. ask what they like. most importantly, just think about whatever you like and do it. sex with other girls is that easy. and so good...
oh, and whatever you do, DON'T fake it. girls can tell. you are both there to enjoy the experience, not perform. HAVE FUN.
2006-07-26 16:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by scruffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be scared. My first time was like that. My partner put no pressure on me and we took it slow and then she let me take the lead. She told me she purposely did this so she wasn't putting the pressure on me to reciprocate. I had the choice to stop and only go as far as I wanted. If your friend is genuine she will give you the same consideration.
2006-07-26 16:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you fell it right go 4 it no-one can tell you how you fell inside your body.- you like being with a woman , or your girlfriend.'cause lot of people is geting run-over by their boy friend ( lover) and the same question go to the man is going run over by their girl friend (lover) so lot of people are trying new lover in the same sex. ( people are not trying to be run over when one people is in love but the other lover is looking out side the box 4 love) so people are looking 4 love with the same sex.
2006-07-26 16:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by drecake2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried about how you'll perform, just be yourself. If you feel like stopping, stop. If you feel like continuing, continue. Take it as slow or as fast as feels right to you.
2006-07-26 16:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You don't need to have "friends" like that. You are scared, because in your mind you know it is wrong. Stand up for what you believe in. There is no compromise in this situation. Period! There are enough screwed-up gays, lezzies, and bi's already. The world don't need another one. USE YOUR COMMON SENSE !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 19:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do what comes natural to you and you'll be fine. If you're uncomfortable with it don't do it.
Tammi Dee
2006-07-26 17:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicideblonde is right take it slow and have fun....hey if you dont like it then dont do it again....but be nice if you dont want to do it again with this girl. good luck and HAVE FUN!!!
2006-07-26 16:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋