i went out of town in march and when i got back wife has been acting diffently for one she has started to hangout with a girlfriend of her's so she says and she stays out alnite long like she'll leave at 5:00 and doesn't come back home till 1or2 in morning,but the thing is she dress like she's going out on a date not like she's going to hang at girlfreind's house ,here's a example she went to her friends house last monday i sent her friend a text message for my wife to call me ,but she never called me back then 20 too 30 minutes later she walks in the door did this happen by chance or did here friend get my message then call here so she could get home from whereever she was let me know what you think thank you
2006-07-26 16:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by drknmky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your instinct tells you that she may be having an affair, follow it. It is probably right. It is time to get your evidence(google phone #'s you don't know, emails, talk to her friends) and then when you have it all together or catch her in the act, show her what you have found. I bet she will tell you the truth.
You need to decide if you really want to know. If she is, you need to find out what is wrong that you aren't giving her in your marriage and if you both want to stay married. Infidelity is a marriage buster for sure, but if you both want to work it out, it can be accomplished with hard work and lots of forgiveness.
I know of a really good site for helping with this:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com
Good luck!
2006-07-26 17:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say your best bet on knowing whats goin on would be to follow her the next time she leaves, make sure she don't see you. Or make sure you know where her friend lives and after about an hour of her being gone, drop by to see if she is really there. Or, call that cheaters show and they will do the investigating for u.
2006-07-26 23:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by clover31776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that no matter what your wife should not be out untill one or two in the morning. Those kind of hours are for single people. Tell her how you feel.
2006-07-26 23:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her girlfriend single, married or the Big D. If she has started hagging with the Big D gang most likely she has, or is going to, Good Luck
2006-07-27 05:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by BJ D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator
2006-07-27 04:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by emily_rose_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be at home at that time of night put your foot down and tell her that a wife should be home that late at night it does sound a little like she could be but maybe they are just losing track of time talk to her about it and be upfront with her
2006-07-26 23:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a privite eye to follow her. and as well put a recorder on your phone this is very legal in the corts system . in my opion you are being cheated on big time from your question . my opion ?
2006-07-26 23:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound a little suspicious,maybe you should check for other signs as well. Hope it's not what you think.
2006-07-26 23:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋