she doesnt wanna have sex... she wants to wait till shes married and i dont wanna wait that long so what should i do?
2006-07-26 16:06:47 · 11 answers · asked by thanks 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If you love her,wait. If you don't,then you dump her.
2006-07-26 16:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A psychologist would tell you to dump her and go for another chick. You don't have much to loose. Unless you are really into this girl you can just wait, but it seems like you are more into sex. So just dump her and find another girl that will. The feeling you have for this girl will be the same for any other girl.
2006-07-26 16:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by adrianchemistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you stay with her than you may end up resenting her for not giving it up. Sounds petty, but lets be realistic. Sex is hard to give up, I am assuming that you are NOT a virgin, so you know what you are missing out on. Plus, if you are thinking about dumping her already then it is a big deal (and you don't love her enough to stick around if she says stingy, so you probably will not end up marrying her anyways.), you either are going to have to go through with it or buy a ring. :)
2006-07-26 16:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by honk2goose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want her and you really love her.. you will wait and be with her..
Or what you can try is foreplay.. with clothes or not..
Or you can dump her.. I think the way you asked the question.. you wanted sex! not love!
Hey if we really someone... prepare to make some sacrifices...
2006-07-26 17:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sparky12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes doing the right thing.your a typical man.does anyone really want to get pregnant before theyre married and then have the guy leave them?respect her decision.if you actually love her like you say,you will wait with her
2006-07-26 16:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh(: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the most important thing, is that you don't pressure her into having sex. If you don't love er enough to wait, then you should not be with her.
2006-07-26 16:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by toyallhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you can't live with her decision to wait, so it would be best to part ways so she can find someone who shares her decision. It is better to go now than wait if you have made up your mind.
It's best to be honest. Don't make up a different reason.
2006-07-26 16:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Aemilia753 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel u cant be with someone becuase they dont want to have sex right now then move on, otherwise if u really love her get married ASAP and then ur both happy
2006-07-26 16:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she believes you regarding marriage, use condom and have sex
2006-07-26 16:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by brilliant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a prostitute. and don't forget to use a condom. TROJAN MANNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
2006-07-26 16:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by whoa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋