2006-07-26 16:04:53 · 5 answers · asked by Ashiya 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it is a mentality thing. we feel we love the ones who dont love us back because naturally and we can help it we love the chase. when someone loves us the most they are purely available for us and there is no chase. but the ones who dont love us we enjoy the satisfaction of chasing that person even if we get hurt. we stand up and continue to chase them until reality slaps us in the face. and when it does the person who loved us the most has gone. so consequently we are left with nobody. when our minds settle down that is when we can start a relationship on mutual terms without having to have empty feelings or feeling like we are chasing.
2006-07-26 16:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by ness 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I believe that we love the ones that won't love us back because most imagine on a daily basis about how their relationship will be and fall in love even more with the ideas. Doing that will screw you up on how to react aroung them. And about the ones that love us the most, we don't love them much or not at all because we don't see them as bf or gf, but best friends while they are hiding there feelings in your friendship. Open your eyes to the possibilities.
2006-07-26 23:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by ShellShock Vet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones that don't love us back I feel is a challenge to us and also a rejection and women don't like to be rejected. The ones that do love us we know that so it's easy for us. I feel as woman we need to be accepted and when we are not we continue to chase someone who does not want us.
2006-07-26 23:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by lorie01504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all I know is from what has happened to me over the weekend. I'm going through **** right now. my boyfriend broke up with me and he didnt love me otherwise he wouldnt have used me. Mostly we love people that dont love us because of incerity within ourselfs.
2006-07-26 23:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by southerncharmer2283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-26 23:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋