how do I solve my sexual desires without being "naughty". and I will NOT touch myself EWE!!
2006-07-26 15:50:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry I spelled young wrong *young lol
2006-07-26 15:51:53 · update #1
i only think that touching and fingering urself is gross becuz ur like putting ur finger inside of yourself. and touching myself? i dont know maybe its ok but i dont want 2 touch myself i want some one else to do it for me
2006-07-27 06:12:01 · update #2
but anyone i dont know
like guys here plezz dont say ill do it for u ill just report u
2006-07-27 06:12:33 · update #3
Wow - great to hear you say you want to wait until marriage. That is really the best thing for so many reasons! Forget those answers that are telling you to just do it. Stick to your guns, remain moral, and you will be glad you did - so will your husband!
When you start feeling frustrated sexually, go for a run, take a cold shower, get involved in something that will take your mind off of it. Also, try to figure out what triggers you. If reading romance novels gets you thinking about sex, then you should quit reading them for now. If it is certain movies, avoid them. Don't do things that you know will tempt you.
YEAH for moral girls!
2006-07-26 15:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by curiouschick18 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are definitely too young to have sex. The fact that you say 'ewe' when it comes to touching yourself is VERY BAD. You need to get in touch with your body and feel comfortable with what you have. The fact that you think touching yourself is gross means that you probably won't even enjoy sex, because you don't even know what's down there!! There's nothing gross about your body!
You should get a book about growing up and the changes that are happening in your body. Look at yourself *down there* in a mirror and figure out what you have!! You have a lot of maturing to do, so don't even THINK about having sex. And masturbating is a healthy part of growing up. Thinking that touching yourself is yucky is unhealthy.
2006-07-27 00:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you have a problem.
First, your sexual desires are not THAT strong because you would have taken care of it yourself, if you know what I mean.
Second,You want to explore sex and say that you have sexual desires however are not ready to explore yourself. How could you have have another person look at you down there, touch you down there if you are not willing to do it yourself. You are obviously too young for sex, take time to get to know yourself before you even think about sharing.
PS. guys like to watch girls masturbate, wait for marraige.
2006-07-26 22:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by JulyBaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is mind over matter. If you set your mind to it, it is easy. Trust me it is so worth the wait. I got married when I was 28 ( I am 33 now) and I was still a virgin.
If you want a good man to marry you you will wait. Sex is made for a husband and wife only. When you are older hugging and kissing will help. Just keep on telling your self that I respect myself & my body and I will save my self for marriage.
2006-07-27 00:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, masterbation is one of the only things to help you get rid of 'sexual' desires. And touching yourself is not gross, you apparently have never had a period in your life.
Other then that there is no way to get rid of your desires, they're there, just don't act upon them, as you obviously aren't mature enough.
2006-07-26 22:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Noel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat is tha point of waitin 2 marriage thatz like actin stuck up an most boyzs don't like that i can understand u 2 young but waitin 2 marriage iz not necessary cuz tha one u marry might not be all that good an tha one u marry proably done did it 2 sum body else so u should 2 when u get about 16 cause everybodies not perfect u gone need sum kind of dick in yo lyfe unless u gay of sumthing cuz nobody in they right mind iz goin 2 wait 2 marriage cuz boyz do have hormonies an they take it very serious
2006-07-26 23:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it and get you mind off of such things. Get busy in group events, sports, cheerleading, church youth, anything positive that will help you toward a wonderful life and success. Sex will get you into trouble and keep you from attaining your life goal. Sex should be between man and wife and it is a glorious addition to their marriage.
2006-07-26 22:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your desires can't be that strong because if they were I'm sure you would have opted for some alone time with yourself.
Masterbation isn't dirty or disgusting. It's normal.
If you're not willing to explore your own body and find out what makes you feel good then you're too young to have sex.
wait it out.
2006-07-27 00:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet_Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This prolly isnt ne thing that someone else can deside for you. u should do what u feel is right. whether its having sex or not having sex. just be positive that ur 100% sure on what u want to do.
2006-07-26 22:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Eammon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That dont saound right you want to have sex but are to young, then want to wait till marriage???
2006-07-26 22:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by nicci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋