My husband says I don't make love to him enough, and it's not that I don't want to it's that he works nights I work days. So the only time that really leaves is the weekends, and between house and kids we have no time, I want to make it more kinky for him someone please help me.......
2006-07-26 15:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave a note for him at the door asking him to wake you up when he arrives home... when he wakes you up, go at him like a raging lunitic!
2006-07-26 15:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by lilmizzerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband work in a place that you can show up wearing nothing but a trench coat, garters, high heels and a smile? If so do that, he will DEFINATELY like it. What you are experiencing is every day life. Do not get discouraged. Marriage takes that 4 letter word "WORK" to make it last and be fun. If weekends is all you have then use what you got. With a home and kids it's tough but do-able. Do not give up, just have fun and remember why you got married in the first place. If you don't have fun now it won't get any better when the kids are gone.
2006-07-26 23:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by damiansams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One idea would be to set aside a certain day and time that you lock the bedroom door and/or try taking a shower together. Also both of you should write down some sort of fantasies. Let each other read what the other person wrote and that is one way to get the mood going. Take turns acting out each others fantasies. This is a turn on for you two to just think about and build up desires that will help set the mood.
2006-07-26 22:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by clover31776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe on the weekend you could send your kids to their grandparents or some relatives house for a night. That way you have the entire night to *play* Go to a store which sells adult toys..buy a few kinky things. Then make him yours <3 G/L
2006-07-26 22:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the best use of weekends leave your kids with baby sitter or hire one just for those 2 days.spend as much time as possible with your husband.hey if u step up a little bit he will be overjoyed that u are trying hard to give him some relaxed and joyful weekend.wear something which he likes and he will be all over u and dreamy looking for the rest of the week and he will be ready for next weekend.
2006-07-26 22:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need is a few hours for love making. Get a baby sitter for parts of the weekends. And tell him that. Tell him that you want a sensuous hot date. The house can wait. Or Do the love making at night, like most of us
2006-07-26 22:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,There's a difference between making love and raunchy sex..lol.which does he want?You need to let the house work go,for one weekend and get a sitter(overnight-preferably a relative)and have fun!!!!!Making love...be romantic,candles,roses,etc....hot sex....toys,costumes,and hours and hours of fun!!!!Good for you trying to keep the fun in th bedroom dept.That really helps keep a marriage alive!!!:)
2006-07-26 22:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-26 22:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by tina m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋