9 months now and at pms time she looks for things wrong and blows up on them. Says she don't wanna try anymore. Then after pms, she says, " I'm back". Loving Caring, talks of getting married. Every month I feel she loves me more. But it still happens... ??????????????
2006-07-26 15:31:34 · 10 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Those hormones make you feel like a different person sometimes, so thank God she has someone who has patience and is still there when "she comes back", but dude...you have to ask yourself if you can realistically deal with this the rest of your life, especially after several years when the lovey-dovey rose-colored glasses fade a bit (and they will...take a look at some of these other questions out here in yahoo). She needs to talk to her gynecologist about this, as there are things she can do to help alleviate her horrible PMS. If she loves you, she will do whatever it takes....
2006-07-26 15:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by julesl68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not all that uncommon. If I were you, I'd probably be the one trying to stay away from her at that time of the month. : ) It doesn't mean that she doesn't love you or something like that. It's just that women's hormones get all out of whack. If she goes to a doctor, they can sometimes give women hormone medication (low-dose birth control, for example) if she has severe PMS like you're describing. Good luck.
2006-07-27 04:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by emily_rose_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every month she has a period... duhhh every month she is going to get some time of pms. Honestly, don't tell her that she can control it because no one intentionally wants to act like that. Some women are less moody with pms than others. I get pretty moody myself when it comes around. Try to let it go, she obviously loves you, its just one of those women things that very few men if any understand. It's normal, but tell her sometimes to just relax and say I love you, and ask her to please stop, good luck!
2006-07-26 22:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break this to ya...but that's the nature of the pms beast.....we are lovable 98% of the month.....and hateful as heck the other 2%......it's really nothing that we can help.....but there is hope.....during that time when she doesn't want to be bothered....leave her alone......buy her a book if she loves to read....get her a movie(chick flick).....let her cry it out....and you come out looking like the most considerate guy on the planet....try it.....
2006-07-26 22:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by signa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by saying thankyou cause it is obvious that you dont relly want to be there, and she must know that she can be a real ***** at that time, or it is a real good way to make you think it is a girl thing and not a thing coming thru the back door....
2006-07-26 22:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you. It's hormones. It's not something she can fix on her own.
We need a doctor or herbalist here to give him some ideas of supplements for her to take.
2006-07-26 22:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by MST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. When that time comes, you don't want to be on the battlefield.
2006-07-27 12:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women go through that...at least she warns you
2006-07-26 22:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then give her some space
2006-07-26 22:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so stay away.
2006-07-26 22:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋