I am a mother with 2 kids and seperation for my ex for 7 months now i wondering if it too early to start dating again or should have someone to make love with me get rid of my sexual tension what do you think
2006-07-26 15:29:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you DIVORCED yet? Then the answer is YES, it's too early. Go to one of those s*x toy parties that are so popular right now and buy yourself some toys to "get rid of your sexual tension".
2006-07-26 15:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even divorced yet, so casual dating.. sure, why not. Starting a relationship? Probably not a good idea. Give yourself some time to really work through everything in your head. ... and my personal bit of advice is: don't bring a guy home until you're 100% certain that it's a long-term relationship for the sake of your kids. One thing you want to maintain as a mother is respect and love from your kids. If you have men wandering in and out, your children will not respect you esp. as they get older.
2006-07-26 22:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "separated" is the divorce final yet? If not, then no you shouldn't date yet. It also depends on the circumstance of the separation and if you two had children together. As far as sexual tension goes, there are many wonderful ways you can take care of that yourself! If you can't please yourself in bed, how can you expect someone else to!?
2006-07-26 22:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Brn_Eyed_Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you are just looking for sex go for it but, if you need to do some healing from your past relationship maybe that is something you might want to do before involving another man. It would be a shame to end up in a bad relationship because of left over junk from a previous marriage. Good luck
2006-07-26 22:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by kukkeeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for?
If you know for a fact that you will not get back with your ex, 7 DAYS is too long !!!
Go for it! Have some fun !!!! You deserve it!!!
Your life isn't over just because you're separated!
Your life isn't over if you get a divorce either!
2006-07-26 22:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in the same situation, you should be discreet but you do need your own personal life. I feel it is important not to expose the kids to casual dating at least until you are divorced. Be careful on their account, they are very smart no matter what age they are..they need your full support at this difficult time. Good Luck
2006-07-26 22:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by sfs_onfridays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the Rabbit! You won't need anything else! ;0 If you feel you are ready to date, just go out and have fun but take things slowly. You have 2 children to think about and make sure they only meet your man, if you are absolutely sure you are going to be with him. B/c if you are moving around with different men, it won't be good for them to see.
2006-07-26 22:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait,because you are seperated,NOT divorced.HOWEVER,IF there's no chance of getting back together and he has moved on,then a discreet relationship,away from your kids who are still grieving from the divorce,then by all means,go for it.Only YOU can decide when your ready.
2006-07-26 22:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be whenever you feel that you are truly ready, and they say not to introduce your new love to your children until at least 6 months into that relationship when you are sure it is a serious one. That's what I heard anyway. :-)
2006-07-26 22:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I agree with you..it's no harm dating someone cause you have to move on in life..at this point you have no idea about how he is feeling about it so why should you feel guilty if you have to date someone...may be he is already dating someone. please do not get in to all this bullshit cause you should do what makes you happy and I think you should go on a date...Hey infact if you can't find someone to date mail me may be I can help you with that..keelfbeel@yahoo.co.in....
2006-07-26 23:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Spacetod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋