i want to know will a guy date a pretty girl that has no friends. i want to know this b/c i'm a shy girl who has no friends. also what will make people not talk to you even though you are friendly, and sweet? and how do you start and hold a conversation. with people in general?
2006-07-26 15:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Ms.Lady K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am almost 20 and i have no friends
2006-07-26 15:21:38 · update #1
Making casual friends is easy, kenya. Almost everyone is glad to have a casual conversation. Talk about what you see. Go to the zoo, stand next to someone who is admiring an animal, and start talking about the animal. Go to the grocery, stop in the cereal aisle and start talking with whoever is there about cereal. Go to the library and ask the librarian for help finding information about a subject you like, such as cars or gardening.
All the casual talk will help you to build confidence to talk with people, and eventually you'll have a conversation with someone who likes what you do. You'll talk more, exchange phone numbers, and, voila, you'll have a friend.
As to your original question, yes, guys marry shy girls. My spouse was very shy, except when she was on stage. She was an actor, but was shy in real life. She lacked confidence. I'm not shy at all; had no trouble getting her to talk. We discovered we had a lot of similar interests, and became friends. One thing led to another, and we were married. For 25 years. We were soul-mates... incredibly close... faithful... trusting... our life together was wonderful. She is gone, now, but I still carry beautiful memories of her in my heart.
Pretty good for a shy girl, don't you think?
2006-07-26 15:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting question. You must be absolutely mortified being around other people as there usually is someone for everyone.
Yes, guys definitely date shy girls but they have to meet the shy girls, first. I'm a guy who is pretty shy himself and thank the heavens each day that women ask ME out (or did at least before I got married). I did have friends, though . . .
Regarding your second question about what would make people not talk to you, gosh, I just have no idea. Are you a student? Do you work? Usually in those instances you meet people and strike up friendships that way, even if you do not have much to offer conversationally.
Good luck and hang in there.
2006-07-26 22:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they sure will... i have some friends who are painfully shy, it takes longer to get to know them, but a lot of times i find that their relationships tend to have more quality because the guys who will put in the effort to understand them must care enough to bother.. it takes work and is not easy. but, you really need to work on the friends thing... girlfriends are the most important things - after family - in your life, find some you can trust and share with, if you are "there" for them they will be in you life forever. guys may come and go, but girls must stick together. we all have hard times sometimes - breakups, divorces, deaths, financial issues, etc... and you really need those friends to get you through.
2006-07-27 13:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by hg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah guys like shy girls, but what you need to do is be nice to them and think about their feelings, if they talk to you, don't clam up because you may make them think that you are rejecting them. They need to feel comfortable, can you do that? Quit thinking about your shyness and think about the other person. That will help you.
2006-07-26 22:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 too and i have no friends as well and im really shy and have problems starting conversation as well which makes it really hard for me to ask girls out.
maybe we could be friends, if you want
2006-07-26 22:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im 21 and shy with no friends but im married so it is possible and if you want me and you can be friends we can be shy together lol
2006-07-26 22:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Xtasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we do, but i think your shyness is extreme in nature and it would be really benificiel to you to get some help for it
2006-07-26 22:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by poboyman27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, the girl i like is shy...
2006-07-26 22:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by josepwns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try so hard and ask god to bring positive people in your life....hope the best for you!
2006-07-26 22:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by allboutH1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozm9dyayn...
2006-07-26 22:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋