I am 14 years old and I live in Georgia. Down here you can get married to someone your same age as long as you have your parents as your witnesses. Im scared and I'm not quite sure what to do. My brother gave me condoms but should we do it?
2006-07-26 14:43:36 · 52 answers · asked by Cody H 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
But I love her and she loves me... and we are not being forced to do it. It's just that were not sure what other people are going to say. And all those people who are caling me a liar and stupid and other profane words love is blind. And if being in love makes me a fool then im ready to put on that dunce cap.
2006-07-26 14:58:16 · update #1
By he way I am a guy and we have bothagree on not having sex. My mom pulls along a $550,000 dollar sallary a year as a surgeon and I'm not trailer park trash or anthing like that. I'm origanally from New York so please be kind.
2006-07-26 15:06:21 · update #2
Okay you guys are making my situation worse. You are supposed to comfort me not try to scare me out of marrige. I'll never leave her. I've known her since i was three and not only is she my fiancee but my best fiend. I could never hurt her like that.
2006-07-26 15:38:46 · update #3
Dont Have Sex Yet. Spend The First Few Years Of Your Marriage Building A Strong Relationship, Based On Love. Not Sex. You Are Both 14, Not Fully Devoloped, Sex Wouldnt Be Good For Either Of Your Bodies. But By All Means, If You Love This Girl Soo Much, Go On With Your Marriage. Marriage Is A Wonderful Thing. And If You Center It Around Love, And Making Efforts Together, Then You Will Suceed. If You Believe In God, I'd Make That A Part Of Your Marriage As Well. Pray Together, Study Together. Be Friends First. And Remember, The Vows Are To Death Do You Part. Shes Yours Forever. Dont Forget How Much You Love Her Now. Because Twenty-Forty Years Down The Road, You Will Love Her All The More. Keep A Journal, Write Down How You Guys Feel. And About Sex. Dont Have Sex Untill You Are Ready To Have A Child. Because That Should Always Be Your First Concern. As Well As For Your Wifes Health. And If You Decide To Have Sex. Get Checked/Tested For STD's. HIV/AIDs.
Hope Your Marriage Goes Well!
2006-07-26 15:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by LanaLyn15 2 · 12⤊ 1⤋
Well if you want to be miserable the rest of your life and miss out on all the things young kids are doing, that's sad.
I got married at 16 with my parents consent and a month later I wanted an annulment but couldn't get on because they signed for me to get married. I wasn't even PG. Just wanted to hang with the older crowd.BOY was that ever a mistake. Got beat up a lot ! Didn't really know him well enough. I married for the 3rd time to a wonder full man going on 9years now. I'd wait till you really find the right man who you truly love.
2006-07-26 15:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u r 2 young 2 get married at the age of 14 I was worried about my school work. I got married when I was 21 and it is still challenging 4 me. By the way how r u going 2 support a wife your not even old enough to get a job. And your parents r freak in STUPID to allow this crap any way. And when your married that's what u do u have sex call off this mess and worry about teenage things.
2006-07-26 16:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out quick. It'll ruin your life and the guy you are marrying will only use you for sex, a cook, and a baby making machine. You are still young. Enjoy life before it is ruined forever. Say you don't want to get married. And say that you want to wait till you are 20. If he still wants to marry you then, then it's your choice. But believe me, if you get married now, you'll regret it.
-you are a girl right?
2006-07-26 14:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't true, because I live in GA and you can't get married until your 16 even with your parents consent. The only places you can get married under 16 is in a little small town in Alabama and a couple of small towns in Mississippi. So, whatever, um, you got issues.
2006-07-26 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by alphabuenaunis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you got her pregnant own up to it and marry her A baby with a mother and a father is idea a baby with only a mother is terrible
the child would be deemed a bastered if no guy said he was the father. I am not saying she is pregnant only you know the truth
so good luck be smart! do not destroy another 2 other life's only to save your's (if pregnant) do the right thing marry her
2006-07-26 15:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. Well you really should wait to you are OUT of highschool, don't you thik. Just stay with her, but don't get married. GEt married at a later date.
2006-07-27 05:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!!! Why are yall getting married at 14?! Please don't do it. You'll regret it!!! If you do get married, you're gonna have to do it one day, and it would actually be ok since you're married, but since you wouln't have the right mindframe, you wouldn't be ready, so please don't do it!!! Don't get married either!
2006-07-26 14:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Miss Brittany ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god...
first NO, DON'T have sex. You should just say 'I do' and have her say 'I do' and viola! Your married...I guess.
My mom didn't even have her period at fourteen. Are you sure she does? wow...
And you can't drive! How are you going to get around? Have your mommy take you?
2006-07-26 16:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married at 14...run..don't walk...too young for marriage. IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH CONDOMS..you don't need them
2006-07-26 14:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋