Every time we go to have sex...his "member" isnt up and we wait for a few minutes and it still doesnt get up.I felt like it was the way my body looked but then i lost a few pounds and its still happening.He swears on his life that it isnt me and he did say that before i lost weight.I have no clue what to do.Can someone please help me?
2006-07-26 14:41:56 · 37 answers · asked by a curious friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not going to do anymore to myself.if it is me then why should i change myself.i dont say anything to him about what happens but after he realizes he cant get up he has a very sad look on his face and he looks really upset.his face makes my heart break.
2006-07-26 15:20:51 · update #1
im gonna be honest.i am freaked out by givin a bf cause like most girls im scared of him cummin.yes i know to quit after a bit but what im talkin about is the pre-***.i dont have a problem with touchin it but my face being around it freaks me out.
2006-07-26 15:51:31 · update #2
its not u. its him
2006-07-26 15:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mind can play tricks on a guy.
Excluding any medical issues, it can simply be anticipation and trying too hard. (no pun intended).
Try a surprise love making session during the day when he doesn't expect it. Don't attack him agressively, just be real gentle.
While his underwear is still on, caress his lower stomach from the pub line up to his belly button. I love that. Strange affect for not touching anything really sexually. If nothing happens, be kind and supportive. It may take time.
2006-07-26 14:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry its not you! the man's having erectile dysfunction and needs the help of a doctor - he should get it checked straight away - ask him what turns him on, maybe he can use viagra - but ultimately if his 'member' is being a lazy little b a s tard he needs to get it checked out - and yes the possibility of him being gay and in denial is there - but still he can't always be limp - definitely a problem there.
2006-07-26 14:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you guys? If you are young he may be subconsiously nervous and not be able to until he is 100% comfortable with you and himself. If you are a little older, he may need to see a doctor about what's wrong. One way or another it shouldn't matter what you look like, just his FEELINGS about you. Maybe try some foreplay, lick/suck/rub him for a while, if that grosses you out like it does many, get some KY and play with him like that. And run his member then against your goods. Hope things "rise" for you!
2006-07-26 15:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress, or maybe a health condition, he needs to see a dr, especially if he's a younger guy. If he's older it could just be old age setting in, the doctor may prescribe some Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra. Good Luck!!
2006-07-26 14:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by BVZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor guy. There are all kinds of possible reasons, and it's a fairly common misfortune.
He should talk to a doctor about it ... they can figure out the most likely reason and best answer.
2006-07-26 14:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men as do women need for play...they cannot get an erection on the spot....
.....have fun, kissing, give him notice you want to have sex...and believe me...do not ask him about no erection...if it doesn't happen then take it that maybe you should wait to a better time.
2006-07-26 14:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rada S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him watch the porno channel for 3 hours before having sex.
Honestly, I think he may have a blood flow problem down below. Or, possibly, he may be gay.
2006-07-26 14:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Liposuction
2006-07-26 14:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by TruthIsRelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor
2006-07-26 14:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Snowflake ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he?
If he is younger than 35, he should checked out by a doctor. If he comes out of the doctor's with a clean bill of health, DUMP HIM!! HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!!
2006-07-26 14:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋