Im 16 i need a job even tho its alittle ...stupid girls in my school will torture me if i work with them?

Question

I need to get a job this summer and i live in a kind of richy rich area where apparently all this rich kids need jobs? whateva anyway. ANywhere i want to work all these girls who treat me like im a leper work. Ever since i started to get a figure and i rose out of my ugly duckling stage its even worse. then i just ...well i dont like tooting my own horn but i have gotten even better looking HEY its not my fault. these girls have turned even guys away from me so no one talks to me. I dont want to be in school with these brats and now during summer i have to deal with them too. Anyway i can get over this?

Answer 1

take the job with the girls- be nice and friendly

stupid girls give it up - as long as you are nice!

be the end of the summer they will be fighting over you!

Answer 2

one thing I have learned over and over again is the reason teens treat other teens bad is because they are insucure about their self. My daughter went through this type of situation for most of her high school years. It got so bad that she quit school. She had a modeling contract at age 14. She done a few t.v. ads and done some fashion modeling for a couple of clothing stores. She was one of the populer kids until she became the pretty one. she was a cheer-leader, involved in all kids of activies at school, then over the summer of her 9th grade year she was picked at an open call to do an audition for a t.v. ad. when she was chosen at the audition I was sure It would be the start of something great for her. Instead with-in a few months she had lost most of her so called "friends" and was harrased daily at school. We live in a very small town and if your not in that click you're treated very bad at times. By the time she was at the end of her 10th grade year I couldn't get her to go to school. She didn't want to face these crule people any more.
Well to shorten this story a little, She got her G.E.D. started college at 16, had a assoc. degree at 18 and has continued her modeling career. she is doing very well for her self now. The girls that gave her such a hard time are not doing very well, one has already been married twice and works at the local grocery store that her grand-daddy owns. one has two kids by two different dads and is living in public housing, most all of them are still depending on their parents for support. At the end of the day I can stand back and look at the last ten years and see even though it has been a hard road my daughter is the one that made it. Her sister is now a senior at the same high school, she is at the top of her class and has only a handfull of good friends. But she will be the first to tell you don't let these kind of people make your life hell. Hold your head up, be proud of your good looks, and treat people good. Get involved in a good youth group, their are people out there that will be a good friend and remember in a few years from now things could very well be a lot different.

Answer 3

Hello, good looking! This is the test of your grace, style and ability to withstand cruelty. Get through this and the rest of life will automatically be easier. So DON'T shy away from this great opportunity!

Take up a job, be very graceful and polite, don't show off your attractiveness too much, and ignore the others who are looking down on you. They are threatened by you like hell.

So walk with your head up high and keep your eyes open: A few of these girls like you and they are afraid to show it, right now and are watching you. You watch them and try to figure which one you might be able to make friends with. See if you can identify whom and then make your move. She will be bit like the person I am describing here, too: Dignified and soft spoken with a willingness to help others.

Don't talk about the other girls except to say, "They're nice". The girl herself will open up and tell you the real story. If you are clever, you will quietly be able to win everyone's confidence by not saying anything bad about other people.

You've definitely got the top girls worried, so they are hiding behind their Dads' money! If you show that grace has more class than money, without actually making a point of it, and can remain aloof - a cut above - by rewarding nice treatment with a smile, and bad treatment with a quiet indifference, I believe you'll get through without much incident. If you cover your body just a little more than everyone else - and maintain your dignity, I believe you'll be safe.

There is nothing wrong with loose clothing. People with a good eye can see the difference between showing off your body because you feel insecure and dressing in the knowledge of what womanhood is without baring it in everyone's faces to attract approval.

Grace and artistic style is the better part of being attractive. Let the others flaunt their wares. You stick to your dignity. Wearing a fashionable cap or pillbox hat - believe it or not - will protect you from bad looks and intentions. Praying as you go about your work (like giving thanks and remembering your creator) is also a good protection.

Answer 4

dont listen to them They don't know you do they? You are a better person then those snots. Go to work and dont let them see you show any sad are mad feeling towards them They will do it worse.You will run into lots of jobs in your life that will not like working with someone but we have to work. And try to find a private school. And when your all grown up go on the show ''Look at me now" and make sure all of them are on it. Make sure ya call me so I can watch you kick there butts. Good luck Life is not easy.

Answer 5

Completely ignore the stupid girls who just wish they were you.

Even if they are prettier, smarter, richer, whatever, they want something you have.

Get a job that makes you happy.

Dont work around other peoples wants and needs ever, its your life not theirs.

I have to deal with the same problem and they fear me now because I got promoted my first week and I control all of their jobs [hahah you losers!!!]

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Get a job as a nun. Not many people torture nuns. I hear the pays not too good but you get a free uniform.

Answer 8

Join the Police?

Answer 9

have you considered working for your parents....or maybe at a restuarant..pizza place...ice cream place........or even a movie rental area......have you even considered mowing lawns...my friend made a thousand dollars last month doing just that not including the money he made working for his parents

Answer 10

You could always baby sit, or atleast that would be what i would do in that kind of situation.