ok my friend said that i shouldd 4 give her but she called me fat, ugly, and that i cant sing. does a true friend say that u her bffl??? i need help
2006-07-26 14:34:55 · 15 answers · asked by I luv Lindsey kaemmerer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok like i said she said i was fat ugly and i cant sing but now she said that her family said i was all of those things 2. i just dont want to 4 give her bcz she has always said that and i am was skinyer than her
2006-07-27 10:39:32 · update #1
If she is your true friend then she wants you to improve in all these aspects. Take it in your stride and improve.A true friend is one who really cares for you and speaks frankly without mincing words.Take it in right spirit.
2006-07-26 14:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would never say degrading things to you for the sake of hurting you. While I don't know the context of the comments, I would tell you to judge her on that and not any promise to be bffl. Now, if she said these things to you out of love, you may want to discuss her ability to give constructive critism with her, but they were not meant to be hurtful. Only you can decide which way she meant them.
2006-07-26 14:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Erin S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is someone you should count on to be honest with you.
Sometimes it may hurt, but you should know whether it was meant to be for your own good versus just being mean spirited.
It breaks down to trust and what you are looking for in a friendship.
I can trust my friends with my life.
Can you?
2006-07-26 14:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow wish i had friends like that, Then i wouldn't need enemy's. Believe me friends stand by u, not walk on u, Build uo your self esteem. Not tear it down. Friends give pat on a back, not slap in the face. Well i guess if you like being tore down then keep her. But she is no friend.
2006-07-26 14:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Steven P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I comprehend you proper then your "overwhelm" isn't your boyfriend, & now no longer your fantastic territory to your cousin to maintain clean of. additionally your overwhelm is a unfastened questioning individual who think ofyou've have been given little or no manage over. If he meets your cousin, & develops his very own overwhelm on her, there may well be now no longer lots you would be waiting to do approximately it. The friendly ingredient you would be waiting to do is get the concentration of your overwhelm directly to you. circulate out of your option to look your friendly daily at training, & initiate flirting with him in the past he gets a threat to fulfill your cousin. That concepts-set he will comprehend which you're thinking approximately him, & now no longer merely finding to set him up jointly inclusive of your cousin on the day you adult men circulate to the mall jointly. you would be able to or won't comprehend this even with the undeniable fact which you're in pageant with each and each female your age for the concentration of the boy think ofyou've have been given your overwhelm on. SO COMPETE! (and delightful of success)
2016-11-03 02:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by mcthay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont just forgive her if you dont feel she shoud be forgived sit down with her and ask her why. If you do feel like you should forgive her (Or risking the loss of a friend) you can forgive her.
2006-07-26 14:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Alli R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i think it was rude of her to say so,
but before making your mind about forgiving her or not, try talking to her about it, let her know that it hurt you and know the reason behind her insult... maybe she'll get something to say to you too
don't lose a friend easily, cuz they're so precious now
2006-07-26 14:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.. thats really mean.. you should forgive her yes but shoudlnt she apologize and realize what she said? im not saying be all like "you suck cos of that and blahbittyblah" but you should be like hey you kno you hurt my feelings and this is what you said and i would like to forgive y9ou and be your friend but not if you cant respect me and at least apologize..either that or she's not really a friend...
2006-07-26 14:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your true friend she wouldn't have said anything that made you feel bad in anyway and if I was you I wouldn't forgive her.
2006-07-26 14:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend she should not have said that
if you are her friend you would forgive her
both of you need to remember one thing:::::::: you're only human! both of your mistakes are very human mistakes.
friendships are a gift and precision
2006-07-26 14:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋