me and my girlfriend in a relationship. She keep on insisting me to have sex, but I'd refuse, now she is like mad at me. I'd really want to say nice things to her in a way that I don't want to make love to her. Should I breakup with her cuz I doesn't feel any feeling she has for me, or should I said things to calm her down and be with her? Pls help!
2006-07-26 14:13:05 · 11 answers · asked by Viety 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what if i don't have no feeling for her?
2006-07-26 14:17:01 · update #1
but I don't want sex, I'm not in a state where I'm responsible for a child when I'm in highschool and working at a same time.
2006-07-26 14:18:19 · update #2
and I don't want to hurt fer feelings.
2006-07-26 14:21:16 · update #3
If you don't really like her, then break up with her.
If you want to stay with her but don't want sex, explain to her why. You really care a lot about her, but you don't want to take on the risks that go along with having sex. If you're comfortable, kiss her and hug her.. but don't go further than you want to.
I think it's really awesome that a teenage boy has that much self-control and responsibility! She's a lucky girl to have a guy that isn't obsessed with having sex. If you and her don't work out, I'll bet there are a ton of other girls waiting in line to have a guy like you.
2006-07-26 14:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by bettalover 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well tell her that right now your not ready to support a kid..and even if you used a condom i beleve that people should wait till they are married its the gift you give your partner!!!also there is no way to tell if you guys are going to be together forever ...also whats the rush????you know..ask her that?now if she insits on gettig married just to have sex....she a sexaholic and needs to get help...if she does that then tell her that you guys need to take some time apart because you are in no state to get married or to have sex....if she cant handle that then she is only trying to use you ...... and obveously shes not winning....congrates to you...you arnt being pulled in!!!good luck
2006-07-26 21:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just tell her that she is a beautiful girl and an awsome person but your sorry that you dont want to have sex with her. Make sure you make it clear its nothing personal. If she cant deal with that then she isnt right for you anyways.
2006-07-27 03:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Amelia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to do anything that you dont want to do so if she threatens to break up with you then you should be like **** you ***** cause all she probably wants to do is **** you and make oyu her kids dad....sorry i had to let that come out and i want a baby and im young but i aint gonna screw anybody up like her. good luck :D
2006-07-26 21:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by VaMpIrA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't have feelings with her then you shouldn't be with her out of guilt. tell her to move on and that ur not ready for a sexual relationship. good luck.
2006-07-26 21:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo viety, wassup brother.
2006-07-26 22:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Slysh N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her n the eyes and tell her u love her...and if she loves u she would wait 4 u.(but dnt make it sound mean...just caring)
2006-07-27 10:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be ashamed of what you got. just do it. let her do all the work if she's really wanting it. just lay back and enjoy. and Use a condom
2006-07-26 21:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by sanchez detail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you love her and nothing could change that....Let her not that shes beautiful.......
2006-07-27 09:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha Wright 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say i lov u
2006-07-26 21:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋