im 14 years old and i had had s e x with like 10 girls already is it healthy?

Answer 1

I wouldn't say that it's healthy no. I hope you are using a condom and maybe another form of birth control. Are you aware of all the consequences that come along with having sex? Besides pregnancy, there are so many different kinds of diseses out there, most of them are not curable. Talk to your parents about getting on birth control and ask thier advice about where they think your life is headed. Also, try to visit your local planned parenthood for more information or go to their website at plannedparenthood.org

Answer 2

Even with modern medical science and future prospect of universal vaccination for HPV virus, you are contacting and transmitting a lot of infection. This assumes that you keed up the frequent sex for a while. Your doctor will probably prescribe antibiotics and that is not good for you or the rest of us because
a) your immune system is compromised probably repeatedly and b) the antibiotics wind up in the water supply (yes and birth control pills hormones and HRT hormones also).

Now about your psychological health. You will probably have a narrowminded view of what women are about if you only know them in the biblical sense. Women are total people like you. And they will not progress in their own view of their personhood. They will look at themselves as valuable only for sex. This is like saying that if you are a garbageman you are only good for picking up garbage all day. How would you feel if people thought that of you?

Now about your partners health. This is the most serious affect of your behavior. She will likely encounter this situation. She will not be using a contraception when having sex and find that nothing happens. Then she makes a habit of not using contraception and she becomes pregnant. Now her parents are responsible for the consequences not her. She will either be counseled to a) have an abortion (a cheap solution) or b)
have the baby and keep it or give it up for adoption. This always creates a deep psychological scar and will affect the way she relates to men for a long long time. Because if she has too many abortions ( 3,4, 5?) she cannot get pregnant in the future. And by the way, if abortion is the outcome it will likely be used again.

If she has the child and keeps, it life will be very very difficult and she will be lucky if another man marries her with a child not his own. She will destroy her relationship with her parents and other siblings because of the stress. This is the optomistic outcome.
The pessimistic outcome is far worse.

So. You must understand that in spite of all the societal pressure on young women to grow up too fast, it is in the best interests of all of society to nurture her to full and healthy psychological and physical womanhood to assure the continuation of the model of the two parent family. Kind of like what is happening to the environment when we carelessly burn fossil fuels and suddenly lose New Orleans. Yes, bad things to society can really happen. Hope you understand your responsibility in this and help others to understand theirs (like selling your gas guzzler and buying a hybrid instead?)

Answer 3

Unless you contract an STD (sexually trasmitted disease) there really is nothing unhealthy about having sex. Unless of course you have a medical condition. You always want to make sure you have a condom on hand when you do so.

It shouldnt be a big deal that you have had that much sex at that age, as long as everytime you did have sex with a girl, you had her consent.

If your not worried about your reputation, I dont see a big problem with it at all. Just be sure to get regular check-ups with your doctor to prevent any major diseases.

Oh! Also, since your being sexually active with so many females, it might be best to keep a journal of the date (the day), name and phone number of the girl. That way if you do get an STD you can alert the ones that might have come in contact with it so they can get checked out also.

Just remember, if you have sex with so many girls, its your responsibility to be safe about it. You need to look out for youself, they wont do it for you. So just as long as you are aware of the consequences and possible outcomes, you are prepared! Good luck!

One last thing.... Dont let anyone pressure you into having sex, and try not to pressure girls into having sex with you either. You will want to avoid rape charges.

Nothing wrong with being a P-I-M-P! Biotchezzzz. No no.. only joking. Seriously though, nothing wrong with it.

Answer 4

With "like" 10 girls, huh? So you're not even keeping track. What a pimp. Yeah, it's healthy. Don't forget to have your mommy buy you some smokes and some beer the next time she goes out for your condoms. What a joke...

Answer 5

Well, I don't think it is bad for your health but you are only 14....There are many things that you can focus on to rather than SEX. Don't forget to use condom.

Answer 6

THat is probably not the healthiest thing ever. If I were U....... I would wait to go cherry poppin for a little while.

Answer 7

I wouldn't call it HEALTHY.. It won't ruin your life if that's your question but if you don't use protection.. believe me sooner than later your end up with a desease ...

Answer 8

Probably, but its not healty to lie like that

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Answer 9

ok whatever! you may think your the man now but wait until you have a baby and we'll see if you really are

Answer 10

No, that is premiscuous behavior. If you have to do that be sure to wear a condom every time.