im kinda attached to a certain girl with a foreseeable commitment and probably engagement within the coming years, i am still young, im still studying, im not yet ready to face the paternal responsibilities and all i want is that my girlfriend or her family dump me...i don't wanna dump her! i dont wanna look bad, i want the other way around...they dump me and they look bad! please suggest things that i must do...but please, try tO make sure that that would NOT make me look and feel ill and bad and evil...THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!! and GOD BLESS
2006-07-26 13:59:09 · 3 answers · asked by cool but problematic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're "kinda attached" and want to get rid of your girlfriend? Who cares how you look to other people? That's the lamest reason to try to get her to break up with you. "I don't want to look bad." You may not look bad, but you'll be bad. If you want to cool things with her, then tell her. If you don't want to look bad, then be HONEST. Don't string her along. But I don't want to hear in a few months how you miss having a girlfriend, blah, blah, blah. Besides, if you're just dating this girl, who says that there's a foreseeable commitment and engagement? Don't get ahead of yourself. Take it as it comes. Who knows, she may eventually see what a wimp you are and find somebody else.
2006-07-26 14:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by grrandram 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well fisrt of all why would you wanna make your girl look bad? theres no way to get your girl to dump you . if you wanna leave her then be a man and tell her like it is. or take the easy way out and cheat on her something stupid.
2006-07-26 21:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and tell her how you feel. Only a child would think the way you are thinking.
2006-07-26 21:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋