well im 21 and i have known this guy for a year and we had to break up due to me moving and i miss him terrably he treated me better than any one has ever done.. i have dreams about him frequentaly and they feel so real. i wake up almost crying. i told him about my feelings and he sais that he feels bad about the break up but he dosent feel like he is worth this much trouble. he also said he wishes he could ease my mind and make me feel better..
how should i take that?? does he feel the same??? should i just keep trying to get over it? or what?
2006-07-26 13:47:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
break it off
2006-07-26 13:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by antonio d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The connection you feel for each other may lie deeper than you can ever imagine.
However the circumstances and order of our daily lives and how things happen to us that are beyond our control, can have a huge impact on us, which can completely alter our character, make us stronger, more powerful and always better each and every day.
Losing someone or something we are so close too, can and will break us apart. But always some good will come out of this.
At least you still know him though a letter or an email or a phone conversation. See the good in that.
There are people out there who are losing their loved ones though death and denial. Imagine their pain which is mostly probably your pain times ten.
2006-07-26 20:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by synapse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't feels the same for you. He knows that nothing would come up in the end and would rather move on. Attachment is the greatest suffering in this world. If you don't, it would haunts us. Can you imagine a love one passed away and you can't let go. Move on and look up for a better life ahead.
2006-07-26 20:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're living in the past sweetheart. He has, a few girls, go'n on. You love him one way, he loved/liked you another. If he was in-love with you, he would wanna be with you. There are so many guys out there, who wish they could have a chance of being with you. Give the rest of us some hope, will ya.
2006-07-26 20:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by confeuzdus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say get over it. That's an answer designed to be gentle and somewhat caring. However, it also sounds like he's ready to move on.
2006-07-26 20:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Valient25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ruin your life crying over one guy who treats you nice,there are millions of guys out there that are single and trying to find that special someone,but....,if you really love him,you really want to be with him,go for it,i would say you have nothing to lose,but there is always a possibility that he might be over you or trying to get over you,i wouldn't recommend it,but if you want go for it,it's your choice,he's the one you love then don't let him go,but really think out of the box for this one.....remember,possibilities happen......hope i helped
2006-07-26 20:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Luis L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he shares your feelings. Sorry to say it sounds like this one's lost. Go find the next one. He's probably waiting for you and you don't even know it.
2006-07-26 20:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by mayorofsteveville2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships don't work. Take it just the way he said it- he cares for you and doesn't want you to hurt, but not enough to drop everything and go with you. Do you care enough to drop everything and go back to him?
2006-07-26 20:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by spartacus_nuc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he definitely feels the same..he still loves u...maybe u could show a different perspective...if that even you did move..u both love each other..so that does not make a difference.
2006-07-26 20:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. If you have told him that and he gives you that response, he's not into you. Sorry about that. Look for the one that will be into you and best of luck in finding them.
2006-07-26 21:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see if he still likes you, if he does, maybe move back or have him move if you see a future for the two of you.
2006-07-26 20:52:41 · answer #11 · answered by thinkGREEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋