My friends are saying a week, I'm saying I need to stick around until the baby is born. My girlfriend is considering an abortion, but I don't like the idea of murdering an innocent child, so I convinced her to keep the stupid kid!! Bad idea!!! LOL What should I do?
2006-07-26 13:33:14 · 63 answers · asked by Bob O 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
All you bitches talking about me dumping her and how I should support her are DEAD WRONG. I dont want ANY part of this dumb kids life. If she wants to keep the kid she can, but dont come running your skanky *** to me asking for money! Maybe she shouldn't have been such a ho? Thats not my fault!
2006-07-26 13:42:37 · update #1
You made this baby step up to the plate and be a man, words like stupid kid really burns me. This baby didn't ask to come into the world, you don't like murdering a child? But you will make the child feel unwanted? Grow up!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 13:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
having sex does not make you a man if you wanted to be a man then stop having sex until youre ready to take care of what you made with your girlfriend she needs you right now and you would be low down if you dumped her you should take care of your responsiblity and be a man insted of running think of this what if she keeps the baby when that child gets older itll ask about you and she will tell your child and the child probably wouldnt try find or contact you because you walked out on her when she needed you the most truthfully your a s.o.b oh yeah dont do the crime if you dont wanna do the time so be a real man if youre treating her like this then the baby and your girlfriend is better off without you and you might as well give up on sex because if you did it to this girl what makes you think it wont happen again youre not gonna have any good relationship because of your childish mistakes and thats right it is a mistake you are a child not a man because a real man would step up to the plate and do what he has to do for his girlfriend and his baby youll learn later in life if you grow up and deciede to take care of your responsibility and no im not a ho im a happily married woman and my husband agrees with me and 6 other guys oh my husband said you are an sob
2006-07-26 14:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I sincerely hope you;re joking. But in case you arent....
Why convince her not to have an abortion when you have no intention of sticking around? You know she's just going to have you paying child support for the next 18 years (as you should) and you will NEVER have enough money to do all the things you want, Prolly barely enuff to scrape by.
Stupid is right, stupid for not being more careful, stupid for talking her out of the abortion and stupid for posing your question the way you did.
Talk to her and tell her now you don;t intend on staying with her and would prefer she have an abortion, or give the baby up for adoption. Tell her you have no intention of being around. Tell her now, Don;t wait until she has the baby and it's too late for her to make another decision that could have allowed her and you to live happier lives.
She is just as stupid as you though, for getting involved with someone of your moral fiber and ethics. Go to school, get an education. Stop listening to your friends. Quit calling girls ho's. And if they are ho's, for God's sake don;t sleep with em. Your lucky your not dealing with something much worse.
2006-07-28 16:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by scorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. You said you got her pregnant but she shouldn't expect you to help her out with this kid. You were the one who talked her out of getting an abortion. If you didn't want a kid then maybe you should have used better protection or not had sex at all. You can't just leave her all alone. You shouldn't have called her a ho either just because you got her pregnant. I'm pretty sure that you had to be there in order to get her pregnant (not pretty sure, you had to be) so she didn't have unsafe sex alone so she shouldn't have to take care of this child alone. I am so sick of you people who are acting so immature. You are the ones who make the good teens a bad reputation. I hope you come to you senses and help her out and if you don't I hope this sticks in you mind and haunts you for the rest of your life. Who knows though, the child may be better off without a slacker father like you who doesn't even want to take responsibility for something he did. You make me sick.
2006-07-26 15:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by usa_grl15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Bob,
For one thing, kids are not stuoid, and for another thing I think you took great annititive by talking her into doing what was right by keeping the child! GREAT JOB! Now you need to step up and take the other part, stay with her at least untill the baby is born, be there for her what ever she might need, financial or moral support, and above all, be there in the delivery room with her, watch your child come into the world, I am not saying that you have to be with the girl for life, though it would be nice. BUT DO NOT TURN YOUR BACK ON YOUR CHILD! Child support is hell, if she doesnt come after you, when the child gets older he/she will, and they will resent you for not being there! I SPEAK FOR EXPERENCE, PLEASE DONT LET THAT HAPPEN TO YOU! Good Luck Bob!
2006-07-26 13:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by irishkiten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the deed and now you have to deal with the consequences. Didn't you know that when you had sex with NO PROTECTION that something like this would happen. You DUMB ***. You put your D*** in her and now you need to deal with what comes out. It is just as much your fault as it is hers. Now you need to take responsibility and BE A MAN and take care of that child. And all you are worried about is her coming to you for money. Didn't you know that she can take you to court and get child support from you. So either way you are going to have to take care of that child whether you want to or not so why don't you BE A MAN and take care of the child and be there for her.
2006-07-26 14:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Angela T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your fault that shes pregnant too. You sound like either youre scared to death or either a real JERK!!!! And you probably dont deserve her!!! If you had any descency you would let her know nicely that you dont think things are gonna work out and that you will be around for the baby. Because if your not that sweet baby(that is half you) is gonna hate you when it gets older.And hopefully if your not around she will get a child support order and you will pay for that kid until its 18. Maybe you should grow up some!!!
2006-07-26 20:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a stupid a** you got her pregnant you need to stick around for that baby. If you didnt want to be with her or want that baby you shouldnt have had sex with her you should have left her along time ago. I dont know what is wrong with you guys thinking you can use woman like a piece of meat. You are so dumb I just got 2 pts off your dumb a**
2006-07-26 13:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by catherine b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are an a ss! You don't like the idea of murdering an innocent child but yet you call it stupid!? YOU'RE the stupid one for not using a condom! It would be a blessing to this poor girl & her baby if you dropped out of her life now & stayed out!
2006-07-26 13:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by West Virginia Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how cani put this nicely.....
ok your just a pile of **** because one
you got this girl prganate and now your just going to
leave her? you a piece of **** also you act like you dont want
anything to do with the kisd life but guess what you played one of
the major parts.....you had sex with this girl w/o a condom
if you didnt want a kid you should of used oe....so guess what that makes you a dumb *** ok? so stop being such a **** head and take responciblity for your acctiontions...stay with her even if you hate her...unless your going to bet her then just go away...but yeah if you run away from this you cant come back later when you relize you were a **** ...ok? so go ahead and run but dont come back EVER because your a **** head *** hole!!!
2006-07-26 14:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋