Ok, there is this girls that I really realy like (in fact I love her) but she's already got a boyfriend, and I just can't wait any longer to ask her out. There are so many thoughts running through my head. And this isn't just some crush I really love this girl with all my heart and I would do anything in the world for her. And if I was old enough I would marry her. Any ideas? (Of how I could ask her out)
2006-07-26 13:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by tevisin06 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well you can't ask her out because she's has a boyfriend that would be rude and might ruin your chances with her if she ever breaks up with he boyfriend. Just be patient your time will come.
2006-07-26 13:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Slow down dude. How old are you anyway? Are you old enough to be sure that you really love someone? Do you even know her in the first place?
There's a common saying, 'All's fair in love and war.'. So if you feel comfortable prying the girl you fancy away from her boyfriend. Do it. But I must say, that'd be rather ungentlemanly.
But anyway, try to be there for her. Let her know that she can come to you when faced with any problems. Be her confidant and best friend. Then you'll have no problems hanging out with her. I wish you luck in any case. Can't help much cos you're pretty evasive.
2006-07-26 20:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by The Late Night Scribbler. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honey the other answers didnt really give you that much so im going to give you a tactic. first you have to ask yourself 3 questions ok, do you know if this girl likes you, two does she like you as more than friends (would she date you if she were single), and three, how good are you with rejection? if she likes you but cannot bring herself to break it off with her current boyfriend, than become her good friend, be there for her if she has probs with her man or just wants to talk....i know that one sucks to do but trust me it works. dont ever really suggest she should directly break it off with her boy, but maybe you could say things like. " are you sure hes the right guy for you?" and stuff along those lines. just to get her thinking of all the things that her current boyfriend does wrong then when the time is right she will either break it off or not, and hun you will be there for the rebound because you have stayed so close. and hey if she says no hell there are a billion other girls out there and if you are as young as you portray yourself to be im sure that there will be other girls that you will fall in love with, dont force it love hits you when you least exspect it ok. good luck hun
2006-07-26 20:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my opinion on this situation is...
that right now you cant ask her out because the guy shes with probably likes her alot!if you were to mess with threir relationship she would probably hate you..and you dont want that......the first thing you need to find out is if she really like "him" if shes not too serious about him it would probably be safe to tell her how you feel... (and if she is serious about him)you CAN NOT ask her out because 1 she cant have two boyfriends and 2 because it may make the other guy mad but yeah you CAN tell her how you feel
tell her you love her and you wil wait for her no matter how long it takes!!! and if you really love her you will keep that promise...also if you really love her you wont dare try to savitoge "their" relationship....is just not right......so im sorry if you were expecting me to say...make them hate each other...but i have to be honest.....just tell her how you feel and if she feels the same ways she will break up with him in time......so just wait for her......besides their relationships probably wont last forever!
Good luck!
2006-07-26 20:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, having a boyfriend does not mean anything. I say, be as good of a friend as you can to her and show her how much you care. Eventually things will go your way if they are meant to be.
To see her more often, get involved in the same things that she likes, example, lifegaurding, shopping, certain coffee shops...
2006-07-26 20:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by KEOE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her. its the only way you will find out. just be carfull, you sound young and even though you may love her just remember that a lot of younger girls use guys for money and cars, you dont want one of those ones. i wish you the best of luck and i hope shes your one.
2006-07-26 20:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u really cant ask her out well u can but it would be kinda weird cause she has a bf. but u can tell her how u feel and she what she has to say back. but u really cant go out with her. unless she breaks up with him but just tell her how u feel and let what ever happens happen
2006-07-26 20:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by steven b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly if shes with someone you cant ask her out. she cant have 2 boyfriends.. well she can but no.
just try to win her over i guess. but dont ask her out until her and her bf break up.
2006-07-26 20:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just go up to her one day in skool and say whats up and then say how about pizza after skool and then take it from there good luck wit ur chick
2006-07-26 21:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared or shy.There's nothing bad to try.You must try to win her heart too.Good Luck
2006-07-26 20:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by misha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋