Why do women hate good guys, and love bad boys?

Question

And what is the best way for me to become an unfaithful, abusive bad boy? That way, women will think I'm exciting and a challenge.

Answer 1

if you're having problems finding a girl who doesn't like a "good guy", you must be looking in the wrong place or having bad luck. becoming "abusive", as you put it, would be the last thing you want to do. have patience. i waited eighteen years for the love of my life, the only person i was ever with. i love good guys! and tons of other girls do too whether your encounters have shown this or not. don't worry about the losers who won't admit to liking good guys. be yourself! it's way too hard to put on an act everyday than to relax in your own skin. happy hunting!

Answer 2

A smart woman steers clear of unfaithful and abusive. But someone too nice and obliging can be a bore. We crave a challenge, just like you do.

A lot of women have a fantasy about being the only woman in the world that can "tame" a particular bad boy. That is, he's a bad boy to everyone else, but when I get him alone then he's my teddy bear.

I on the other hand, prefer it the other way around. I'd much rather have the bad boy come out when we're alone. More fun that way, if you ask me.

Either way, it's about the challenge and keeping things interesting.

Answer 3

allot of women do go thru that bad boy phase, it's the excitement of the unknown. But like I said it's usually just a phase. The good news is that's not the kind of men most women want to be in a long term relationship with. Most women want a kind, gentle, dependable man that can protect them and give them security. Don't decide to change your life to fit one type of women. instead let women see how great you are, just as you are and the right one will come along, be patient. Try Internet dating, it can be fun and you might just met the love of your life, I did. Good luck!

Answer 4

I don't hate good guys in the least. I have actually read a article off some site that said there is something a woman sees in men's faces that tells them who is the ones they wish to have children with and the ones that are just for sex. And I'm quite sure there are several women that want to get all their partying and stuff out the way before they settle down and find the good guy they want to have babies with. You don't need to be abusive, I say be yourself and look for chicks that are just out for some fun, don't ever get involved with anyone too fast or too seriously only to get hurt later on.

Answer 5

Every female wants a man that they know can and will take charge. Not someone that they can walk all over. Its not so much being abusive and unfaithful, its more of a guy that will stick to his word in an argument and not back down just to shut her up. Be a man, that's what most women want.

Answer 6

Some good guys are boring they will do what you want them to do with no hesitation or question at all.. bad guys theres a lot of challenge perhaps.. Woman will find out the real you.. if your just acting or trying to be someone your not, it will naturally come out.. girls prefer bad boys perhaps they are not boring and there are some challenges if they can make that bad boy a good boy or they want to see if bad boys also have a soft side.. i suggest dont be try to be one.. just be yourself and your going to be much happier if you find someone who accept you for who you are..

Answer 7

Not me. Maybe some women like bad boys just for hanging out and have fun, but for having a serious relationship we love the good ones!

Answer 8

Ditto.
Quote: "Girls flirt with the dangerous guy, Logan, but they don't take him home. They marry the good guy" Unquote. from x-men 2

ps. Don't become a abusive bad boy. There's too many of them these days, trust me you'll get a good girl if you stay sweet.

Answer 9

That's not true. It's just most of the time girls don't really know what they want. they tend to go for the bad boys thinking it's their "type," and still wonder why it doesn't work out. Maybe it's because he isn't their "type." sounds simple when you spell it out, but so many girls don't get it.

Answer 10

Women like bad boys that arent scared to take risks but being abusive is a real turnoff for women. Women hate abusive men and if you ever hit a female then consider yourself an stupid, abusive punk with nothing better to do with your life except hit on women and if you ever hit a women i hope to see you burn in hell!!!! Women wont think you're a challenge they may just think you need therapy you stupid ************!!!! I hate people like you. Burn in hell *****!!!


~Rickeisha