well im 21 and i have known this guy for a year and we had to break up due to me moving and i miss him terrably he treated me better than any one has ever done.. i have dreams about him frequentaly and they feel so real. i wake up almost crying. i told him about my feelings and he sais that he feels bad about the break up but he dosent feel like he is worth this much trouble how should i take that?? does he feel the same??? should i just keep trying to get over it?
2006-07-26 13:05:49 · 10 answers · asked by jackie84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he also said he wishes he could ease my mind and make me feel better..
2006-07-26 13:30:46 · update #1
"he dosent feel like he is worth this much trouble"... Any man that doesn't think he should be the center of your universe doesn't want to be. He is trying to tell you to emotionally move on in a polite way.
2006-07-26 13:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that opened up to him and he then has the nerve to say all this trouble isn't worth should be a positive yes that you should keep trying to get over him. Sounds to me that he has moved on and i think that you should do the same.
2006-07-26 13:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not very serious about you...
do not take him seriously...forget about him. If he truly loved you so much he would have immdiatley tried to work something out the moment you tell him that you miss him
Men have EGO issues...they dont ever want to budge...only women should always budge and follow what men say...that has been our societys way... he is not to blame...he is just one of them. He may really be loving you but is not ready to budge ... a little ego issue you know...
2006-07-26 13:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Larissa_J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that the fact that you love him is obvious. If he loved you nearly as much as you love him, he could make some compromises and he didn`t consider this thing as "trouble". Imagine yourself in his shoes, if you were him and loved you as much as you love him now what would you do?? If the answer does not get close to reality, you should try to forget him my advice. Take care, these things take time and are not very easy do get over.
2006-07-26 13:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by rauliny_rules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"dosent feel like he is worth this much trouble"
His way of letting himself off the hook.
Trying to tell you "Move on".
Sorry. That's just the way it is.
2006-07-26 13:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's deep. If he feels that way, maybe u should let it go. But you always have to go with your feelings. Maybe take a visit back to see where it goes. Or just use it as experience for your next few relationships.
2006-07-26 13:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by blacksrt4acr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love moves sweetie. Can it be possible to be together again?
2006-07-26 13:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means get over him. He is already getting over you.
2006-07-26 13:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is either coy or he's found sum else....either that or he's on another planet (confused or has difficulty communicating)
2006-07-26 13:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by fonyangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep with his best friend in front of him
2006-07-26 13:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by fartswhenigiggle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋