what should i do so i don't feel so weriod.
2006-07-26 13:03:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'm starting college and I'm 18
2006-07-26 13:08:57 · update #1
I need to know how old you are first before I can answer that question.
In any case, hold your head up high and people will notice your self confidence and not give you a hard time.
Best wishes to you!
2006-07-26 13:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! You are not the first and WONT be the last! You graduated high school obviously and at least you are going to college. Alot of people would just sit at home, and not go to school, but you are still going for your education. So that is all that matters!! Go ahead and get your education, and dont worry about what anyone says to yoU!! Good Luck with the pregnancy and with school! Hang in there!!! Keep your head uP!!!
2006-07-26 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by femaleballa23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's done is done. You can't UNPREGNATE yourself.
There are lots of things that pregnant woman can wear that makes her look cute (no matter what you do, you're still going to look pregnant. If you make it look like you're hiding it, the other people you go to school with are going to make it worse for you).
You're going to be proud to be a mommy, right? You're already proud to be a mommy, aren't you?
Let hat belly stick out, girl! Exercise lightly to keep yourself in shape (and out of the doldrums). Find hip-hugger stretch pants and a tight-fitting shirt to go over it.
You may be nervous about it, but if you're proud of your tummy, don't hide it. It's not a mistake to have a baby, even if the timing was.
2006-07-26 13:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest about it. I think you will find more support that way than any other. You might also find that you can either educate your friends, or answer their questions, or fill them in on things that they would be curious about (but don't have the right person to talk to about it) Above all, be a role model. Hold your head high, make a good name for yourself and you may even find that you can inspire someone else who might be going through something similiar.
Good luck,
2006-07-26 13:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Amy P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may not answer your question. but maybe it will make you feel good.
I have a great firend of mine that had a child when she was very young. went to college and got an accounting (4 year) degree. in 2 and 1/2 years. she got great grades. her daughter was/ is well taken care of and happy. She said how she got through was setting goals and a schedule every day. If she can do it I know any one can
Good luck!
2006-07-26 13:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by This is harder than it looks? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people think about you. However, I did know of a lady who was pregnant in college and she would do things that aren't safe for a pregnant woman to do, like sitting on a ledge and then jumping back down. That scared the hell out of me and I thought she was a moron for doing so.
2006-07-26 13:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're entering a new situation, and trust me: college is NOT like high school.
All freshmen are treated the same - you're basically ignored by everybody but your RA.
So you're pregnant, it's just a fact of who you are. Don't sweat it, and don't obsess over it, and you'll find that people won't be worried about it when getting to know you.
2006-07-26 13:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by pblcbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Bestfriend had a baby at a young age. And she just remained herself. She didnt change for no one. When you have the baby you have to not just think about yourself you have to think of the baby. Your going to school for your education not 2 be Miss.Popular. And dont worry if you have a nice personality your going to make friends anyways & if people talk about you dont even worry people are going to talk about you until the day you die so just let them and just brush your shoulders off and keep on going
2006-07-26 13:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what's your age? If you are already a high school grad then don't worry about it. If you are still in high school wear big shirts so you don't feel like you are a misfit. And as far as maternity leave goes, have a friend bring you homework. Good Luck! Luvsâ¥!
-Me!
2006-07-26 13:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wear something big and loose for this few months, then you tummy will not look so obviously that you are pregnant.
I had my two kids, people around didn't know I was pregnant till about eight months later. When people asked about my big tummy, I just tell them is my tummy.
2006-07-26 13:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋