People, help me! I'm really fed up! I'm 25, nice enough looking, nice natured, but i just can't find a descent guy! I'm confident enough in myself, but when i go out on the gay scene, all guys ever seems to want is sex sex sex. I want more than that, i wanna meet someone who is loyal, caring and after more than a fumble in the toilets. The clock is ticking, and i'm losing hope. What do i do!? It's starting to get me down :(
2006-07-26 12:59:06 · 3 answers · asked by Micky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what you mean. bars and clubs gay or st8 are hookup places so stay away from there. first of all take your time and relax you are still young, there is a lot of time so don't stress, thats when people get desperate. and believe me it shows. go to dating sites first like match.com, yahoo personals, date.com, you'll get better choices there, stay away from any sites that are adult and allow nude photos. they are hook up sites. gaylounge is an option too, I met a good guy on there. the whole dating older guys thing isn't a great idea, age plays a big part in wether a relationship will last or fail. I'm 27 going on 28 and 33, 5 year gap is my rule either older or younger. no more. don't worry there are good guys your age out there that want more than sex.
2006-07-28 19:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by answermethis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some of the personal web sites. I know there have to be some that would elicit answers from more than those who simply want to romp. You are ahead of your time. Most gay men want nothing but sex until they are about 5-10 years older than you are now. (I've known my share of them, promise.) You may have to start looking at the prospects of dating older men. Most older gay men have gotten past the fumble in the toilets stage. Any which way it goes, your man is out there. Don't give up.
Good luck.
2006-07-26 13:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, you will never find a decent guy in the gay scene. Being gay is all about lust. That's like looking for a decent hooker. Have you thorougly explored the fact that you have no straight tendencies at all? If not, do so because you will get to no where but hell by practicing a gay lifestyle. If you have nothing but gay impulses you must understand that God has called you to carry a very heavy cross because He loves you immensely. You must resist these sexual urges (just like every unmarried person has to) and live your life to the best of your ability. I will keep you in my prayers. God bless you!
2006-07-26 13:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋