we've been sepearated for 6 months and we still have sex every time we see each other
2006-07-26 12:53:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are both of you sepearated in the first place. Obviously there must be something that is serious enough for the split up. Your split up is mutual and giving each other time to thing about how to compromise the difference... however, it seems that you both still love sex or each other companion.. this is mutual between both of you. However, if ever one of you started to have someone else, then it is best that each goes their own way and live on. No more hanky panky about it. Everyone needs love not just sex.
2006-07-26 13:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 19⤊ 6⤋
Your singing my song, honey !!! I did that for oh, about 2-3 months, and we always ended-up, back together, every time !! For, 18, years, off & on we did this, until, I finally met my daughters dad, and we married, but it was a short marriage, and he & I got back together again...But, my ex, I am terrified of now. And have an "Order of Protection" against him... He got all messed up with drugs, when we devorced, and he's just not even normal, anymore, its so sad... But, I'm sure its alright, you two, were married, before.....And its that perfectly sex-life, thing that always kept me going back for more....This is the first time in my life, I just dont know what to do, with myself,now that I know we'll never get back together, under any conditions, what so ever, you know....So, I just decided to enroll in school, and hopefully I'll meet someone nice, to "Court", or have a friendship with...I'm old school, and I like being friends, before any hanky-panky, you know..... Well, have fun, with this, I know, I did.....When the going was good...
2006-07-26 13:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!
If you are separated it's for a reason. Obviously it wasn't because the sex was bad, but in having sex with your ex you are avoiding the real problems plus adding more. You are saying that the only value you have to each other is sexual.
You've basically diminished your relationship to being f*ck buddies.
2006-07-26 13:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing,me and my ex have been divorce 6 years,and and for the last years we have been making love every chance we get and we have to travel to meet each other and is thinking of getting back.
2006-07-26 16:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by jan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon.........the most inportant thing is at least the 2 of you still trust and love each other enough to be intimate with each other most people hate their ex's; there still love there you just had to be away from each other to find it.
2006-07-26 13:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by rlc120168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yeah i think its a bad thing.... because it is possibly giving false hope to the person that didnt want out of the marriage.. and well if your just going to sleep together, what the sense in trying to make it work if u get to sleep with them and have ur freedom.. and how do u know ur the only one their sleeping with, could be taking a huge risk that they wont give u something..
2006-07-26 13:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with that! In fact, it's great! Because you are STILL married! "Until death do you part". Just because the law says you aren't married doesn't change anything in the eyes of God. Marriage is forever, through thick and thin.
2006-07-26 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex and I did this for 10 months after we seperated. Then I guess my feelings were getting to complicated and decided that enough was enough.He left me and I wanted to make sure I didn't get hurt any further.My advice to you is if you see it working out good if not then becareful!Good luck
2006-07-26 13:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great fun isn't it.....no hassles, no worries and still within a comfort zone.....you'll either eventually move on or get back together....we been doing it for years, just can't live together....but enjoy great sex in seperate lives.
2006-07-26 13:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still have feelings for each other, but it may be a bad decision, you split for a reason.
2006-07-26 13:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by billie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋