I think after 5 years of being divorced, I should start dating and re-marry. What do you think?
2006-07-26 12:04:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
according to what i read, take 1 year off after a divorce - no dating at all. after that, if you feel you are 'healthy', you should start to look around. no timeline works for everyone though.
2006-07-26 12:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by 2thseeker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say when your ready.If your ready to get date and/or get married,then by all means go on with your life.Do not sit around,crying over what was and start looking towards the future.My ex husband and I separated.He had been committing adultery anyways but I began a relationship,within a few months,with my best friend(yes,I am a woman and he is a man).My ex would not sign the papers So,the divorce from him,wasn't final until the month I married my husband,almost 3 or so yrs after he and I separated.I wish the best for you and hope you find love,the 2nd time around.I am proof that it is possible.I am happily remarried and KNOW for a fact,that I have found true love.
2006-07-26 19:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have waited long enough...my ex got his g/f pregnant 3 months after we split....and married her 4 days before the baby came,,,,lucky our divorce was final the month before...
we were married 13 yrs,,,divorced 2 so I've waited 15 years for the right man so far......I'm ready...
2006-07-26 19:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by smt1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different but after 5 years I think you are more than intitled to move on with your life. However if you have any children from that marriage just remember they need you so keep up with your obligations there
2006-07-26 19:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what's best for you..Regardless of what anyone else thinks, you have to live with your decisions at the end of the day. If you feel like you're ready to be emotionally involved with someone, GO FOR IT!! Five years sounds like a good enough recovery period! to me!! Either way, I wish you the best...
2006-07-26 19:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by TN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Haven't you ever heard of "until death do us part"? Just because you don't take it seriously doesn't mean that God doesn't. You will be cheating on your wife (and I don't care if she's cheating on you or not). If you want to get to heaven, you better not start seeing other women. Try to work it out with the one wife you have until death.
2006-07-26 20:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you waited that long??
my step dad was married less than a month after my mother divorced him
2006-07-26 19:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have married the next day if you wanted to. I think its time.
2006-07-26 19:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your heart heals and can truely love again.
2006-07-26 19:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long past time, I'd think.
2006-07-26 20:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋