2006-07-26 12:03:51 · 44 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cant help but cuss...she eats all day. When I come home from work she usually already had 4 meals and snacks. I get angry because she used to be thin now she is vert big woman.
2006-07-26 12:07:28 · update #1
take her for long walks, best way to lose weight
2006-07-26 12:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever think she's eating more than ever because of your cussing? You are hurting your chances of helping her lose weight. The more she's depressed about her weight and with your cussing, the more she'll eat cause it's the one thing in her life right now that is "good" to her, not for her but to her. BIG difference.
Talk to her about your concern, ask her to go with you and with your support to a dietician and to a gym (if she's willing). Help her pay for this if needed.
But please STOP cussing her out. My boyfriend did that and I gained more. It wasn't until he let up that I've now lost over 40 pounds and I'm back to my high school size. Try it! It just might work.
2006-07-26 12:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without cussing you say? Well I just try to lead by example, that and I don't fake it when her excess weight is not attractive. I am very truthful when she asks that question "Do I look fat in this?" For a year and a half I have pretty much treated her as a roommate, and she's finally getting the hint and getting into some shape. (other than round)
2006-07-26 12:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be a touchy topic with women. if you want to help your wife, you need to exercise with her. this way she feel encouraged, dont tell her she needs exercise and work out, she knows this already, instead, tell her this "hey baby, how bout we go for a walk just me and you, to her this sounds romantic and fun and your still getting exercise. make some adjustments of whats in the house. YOU go to the store, make her dinner, you have to show that you care, cussing at her will feel like an attack and make her eat more and only frustrate you.
you will do the right thing.
2006-07-26 12:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't going to lose any weight if you are bringing her down by cussing at her. Women don't need reminders of their weight or reminders that they need to lose it. Why don't you encourage her by getting a family membership to a gym and working out with her. Buy and cook healthier food. If she is willing to try and lose weight, then help her and don't cuss at her. If she doesn't want to lose weight and you can't accept her the way she is, she needs to kick your cussing azz to the curb. Remember, you married her because you love her, not because she was thin. Or did you?
2006-07-26 12:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lanie Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does every guy have to resort to swearing? It is un called for. Say something like "Het honey I am going to the gym... wnna join me so i have someone to talk to" or volunteer to go grocery shopping so you can pick up better foods or cook something different but good and healthy... By the way... Maybe it is you or a stressfull home life that makes her eat that way. Or maybe she doesn't feel you are worth the effort any more and she just said the hell with it. having children can also cause weight gain.
2006-07-26 12:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stop cussing at your wife regardless of her weight perhaps it would be better if you waited until you are older to be married.
That's a really childish, and shallow thing to do. Also, it won't help her stop whatever you don't like about her.
Are you her father or her husband? So if you aren't her father then why are you acting like a disciplinarian?
Perhaps she'd like support from outside sources, and if she can't stay thinner then perhaps she chooses to be heavy, and you either get over it or just love her the way she is.
2006-07-26 12:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by ohboyiamontheinternet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get any woman to lose weight by cussing at her... thats not so nice, and its hurtfull. She's your wife... you should love her no matter what. But if her weight is botherin you that much, then suggest excercising together. Plan some fun activities that include alot of movement.
2006-07-26 12:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by mony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go on a diet and try working out a little more and encourage her to come with you... you do the grocery shopping and only buy healthy foods... you initiate it and she most likely will follow... but never cuss at her... it wont solve anything.
2006-07-26 12:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wee what you doing you keep cussing and putting her down and it not helping her.. asked her what can you do to help her not what you think it better to cussing at her. If you keep on doing it she will be over weight and she will not be able to F**k you anymore and she will leave you stuff.
My wife gain weight and she was not happy I asked her what can I do to help you and she tells me walk with me everyday and help me eat healthy food and show me supports and make me feel strong and love me.. that the things she needed right now .. You not showing any freaking support you freaking solider Dumb A** yous hould though of that before you married her duh!
2006-07-26 12:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, you mean without cussing her? do the grocery shopping. cook. take walks. send her to curves. tell her your friends all think shes fat and that you can do better. buy her some diet pills......diet with her. tell her you will give her a 100 bucks for every pound she loses. MOTIVATE HER. tell her you will buy her a new wardrobe, if she hits her GOAL "ideal" weight. don't cuss her. and remember support her the best you can.
2006-07-26 13:20:57 · answer #11 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋