I hate having sex with her/my wife. She has gotten fat and it turns me off. I have told her to diet ans she wont.
2006-07-26 11:56:39 · 27 answers · asked by soollddiieerr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You married for better or worse, if you love her, help her lose the weight, start exercising together, make her feel she can do it, praise her when she loses just a little and you will see the difference.
2006-07-26 13:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jewell 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should tell her that having sex with her is bothering you because she has gained so much weight. It will hurt her when u tell her that but if u feel that way you can't keep going on having sex that u hate. If u can get her to understand that it is bothering u then maybe she will be more willing to do something about it.
It would be best if u could just love her for her and not just for her body but I do understand.
Just try to talk to her and help her to understand your point of view. Whatever u do plz give her a chance and don't run out and cheat on her. That will make her fell even worse and she may be so hurt it will be harder to loose the weight.
She probably already feels bad abt her weight.
Just try to be nice and make her want to loose the weight. Maybe there is some strong underlying pain that is causing the weight to stay on already.
Treat her as a whole person.
2006-07-26 12:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the male chauvinist pig >Cuddles< that is a retarded name. Demonstrate to your wife why you loved her and how much she is letting you down. Do physical activities with her like taking a trip to the gym with her. Tell her how you feel and that she should not take you for granted. I mean just leaving her because she's fat? Wouldn't there be more to her then just looks? Maybe that's why she's putting on weight.
2006-07-26 13:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by warhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you hate having sex with your wife... people change over the years but you are supposed to love everything about them regardless... Maybe you are falling out of love and should talk to her about it... or maybe thats the way she likes it. Maybe she hates having sex with you too, and thats the reason she got fat to begin with.
2006-07-26 12:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to the point that your wife turns you off (and you are rude enough to tell her to diet) then your relationship is in serious trouble. Try counseling. Oh, and no, I love having sex with my wife. She is athletic, but I wouldn't care if she gained 100 lbs. I love her.
2006-07-26 12:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Divorce her...let your fat wife go..
There are plenty of guys out there that will love her for who she is, so do her the favor and hit the road, Pally!
When your looks start to go, you gain weight, lose your hair, are hunched over from age, you better hope someone will love you, because your looks won't last forever sweetcheeks! hmmmm, have you ever heard the saying.."what goes around...comes around"??????
2006-07-26 12:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see what the problem is...you are a controlling, manipulative husband who probably instigated her weight gain with your actions towards her...oh yeah, and I guess WE are supposed to assume that you are MR. FINE in every way yourself, right??? Grow up and learn what REAL LOVE is...you might change your sh*tty attitude then...
straight from the heart of a thin lady, but you pissed me off.
2006-07-26 12:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i fyou like damn thin woman then you should find woman that does work out and stuff but you didn't you stupid dumb *** dude no respect and find someone to pick on. I love F**K your wife and i don't care how fat she is what ever she sure get enough sex from me... I love the inside not the outside. so, screw you dumb *******.
2006-07-26 12:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a guy who named his dog "Sex".
he didn't like sex either. His wife thought of owning the dog in the first place, not him.
2006-07-26 12:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She demonstrates her lack of respect for herself and you by letting herself go. I remember when my wife started getting heavy. She never believed I would leave her but I gave her a weight not to cross and when she passed it I left. Period. My son has also dumped girls for not staying in shape. I feel both partners have an obligation to stay in shape to properly service each other.
2006-07-26 12:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋