2006-07-26 11:52:55 · 15 answers · asked by fyablaz 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Hey, I used to have that problem when younger, too. But when you're with a regular partner, it's pretty easy. Tell her this is bothering you. Ask her if it's ok if you shag her & *** fast, then take a break, then go at it again. The second time, you'll last longer.
Lots of women appreciate fast & rough sex, even if it means they won't catch up and *** in the 1st round. They also love when you involve them in a *project* :) So, if your gf loves you and cares about you, she'll play along.
I tried this with my former gf. After a while, the problem sorted itself out. Have no idea why, but it did, and it still works, even with occasional partners.
2006-07-26 14:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's actually something you can physically do, and it's pretty easy: work out your PC muscle! Here's some info from Askmen.com:
"If there's one thing that guys are always asking me, it's "how can I control myself from ejaculating so quickly?" The answer is simple -- okay it's not that simple, but there is a way that many of you can help yourselves. All that's required is a little exercise that you can do while you're at work or sitting on the couch watching Survivor .
Both men and women have a PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, which is responsible for the health of the pelvic floor. But trust me, that's not all it's used for. You have to keep this muscle in tiptop shape in order to maximize your sexual experiences.
The next time you go to the washroom and begin urinating, try to stop the flow midway. Can you? If not, then you need to start exercising as soon as possible to maintain penile fitness.
Exercising this muscle regularly will prolong the duration of lovemaking and make your climax much more intense. Some say that guys with healthy PC muscles can actually hang a towel over their erections and raise and lower their penises at will. You can also use a hand cloth or handkerchief.
Just as working out your biceps will give you better definition and more strength, the PC muscle can help you strengthen and better define your erections and orgasms. But as is the case with everything, discipline is required."
If you want descriptions of how to do the exercises, click the link!
http://ca.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67b_love_tip.html
And here's more info about the PC muscle (no, I am not making it up):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pubococcygeus_muscle
2006-07-26 18:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by ghost orchid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off, being "in love so much" doesn't change how much or how often you ejaculate. If you honestly are having problems with premature ejaculation, there are a few easy things you can do, and a few not-so-easy things you can do.
1) Masturbate before you have sex. Up to an hour before, if you know you are going to have sex, masturbate. This will give you a vastly increased amount of time before you will ejaculate during sex. This is unless you have an actual physical issue that is causing the P.E.
2) Drink a couple shots of alcohol 15 minutes or so before you have sex. Alcohol thins the blood, and will often make it hard for some men to ejaculate. For men that have problems with P.E. this can be a very easy way to slow things down.
.... more difficult ways to help
3) Medication. I do not, in any way, recommend this option, but it is an option. Consult a doctor first.
4) Work on it, a lot. I mean this literally... let your partner know that you want to try and make yourself last longer, and let her know that you are going to try and "hold off" as much as possible, and that you want to have sex multiple times in a short period of time, as much as possible. If you can do this, it is a good method for building your endurance, etc... but you have to have full participation from your partner.
2006-07-26 19:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by rainsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premature Ejaculation (PE) is a very common and serious problem suffered by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of PE range from person to person and from psychological to physical. The average time a male suffering from PE is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate.
There are many supplements and techniques that are good for this issue. There are also medications, but those have side effects. I would recommend using 5-HTP 200mg, which is a serotonin precusor. A low serotonin level has been linked to PE, that is why doctors prescribed anti-depressants, 5-HTP will boost the serotonin levels naturally. You can also practice the Natural Ejaculation Control Tecnique.
2006-07-26 20:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie "Something About Mary". Watch Ben Stiller's character closely.
2006-07-26 18:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by uma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time to ensure that she is satisfied before you satisfy yourself,,,,it takes practice but you will learn to take your mind off your pleasure and make sure she is satisfied then go for it with all you got. Enjoy!
2006-07-26 18:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chilly Willy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about something other than sex when you are about to ***, to take your mind off of the act .such as ugly people, a dirty job ,
2006-07-26 19:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by probester91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about playing baseball or fixing a broken down car while you are pumping....
2006-07-26 18:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by -* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pumping the neighbors poodle.
2006-07-26 18:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more 4 play longer will help.
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