This is painfully wierd to me but i need help?

Question

My fiance says she wants to get her nipples and clit pierced which is ok by me its her body, but she is trying to convince me to get my little fella studded. i have no piercings and my complete life i have avoided metal entering my body(minus some shrapnel from Iraq) anyway i love her like crazy and would chop off an arm if it would make her happy, but the idea of a metal anything shoved threw my penis scares the crap out of me. i just want to know should i make her happy and suck it up or say hell no. also if anyone could let me know if you have one or know someone who does how bad is it?

Answer 1

if she really loves you, then she won't make you do it.

that's sounds cheesy...

My bf has tattoos and is getting more. I personally hate tattoos and act mad when he gets them, but he says its his body not mine and that I should support what he wants to do.

Answer 2

Beware of yielding to demands you don't want to do, but your woman wants you to do. I'm sure you must know by now, that sometimes women make demands just to test their partner.

It may sound contradicting, but in the long run, a woman who loves you will come to appreciate and respect the man who doesn't falter under every other whim she makes.

If you are uncomfortable about the idea and you've kept yourself pierce-free until now, I suggest continuing to honor it as you have done in the past. After all, your woman has come thus far to appreciate your pierce-free body hasn't she? What more could (or should I say should) she want other than just you?

Be proud of your pierce free body and defend its dignity if you respect it.

I wish your fiance would appreciate her own pierce-free body too, but I'm not really in a position to say that.

I hate sounding pessimistic, but I just have this bad feeling that letting even one little thing like this go may very well be asking for wilder suggestions to decorate her or your body down the road...

But alas, everyone has their right to choice, even if it means it's not necessarily the best one.

Whichever way you choose, if you already know what is right, don't hesitate to take that path.

Answer 3

Have you ever done something that you were sorry about later? Well, this is one of those times, but it's still early enough that you can do something about it.

All I can say is pain, possible infection, more pain, future pain (if anyone pulls the metal thingy), and what are the odds of the two of you staying together for the next 50 years? If she REALLLLLLLLY loves you, she would not put you through that. Isn't that some old African custom? Do you live in Africa? If not, she should let you off the hook (or needle).

Answer 4

Dude, It's YOUR body and YOU have to live with it! NOT HER! She wants her stuff pierced? FINE! But if you don't want yours pierced, and have avoided metal like you said...then what the HELL are you thinking??? (you're NOT) Okay, here's the inside scoop...It hurts like HELL (and you thought shrapnel was bad, HA!) And you have to keep it SQUEAKY FRUCKEN CLEAN or else it WILL get infected and start to puss (EEWWW! YECKY!) It is really more hassle than it's worth...cuz you can't "feel" it anyway! PLUS, it sometimes gets caught on things, and the last thing you need to be worrying about is whether or not your goods are gettin snagged! Right? Am I right??!

Answer 5

Ok, What difference does it make to her if you do it or don't get pierced? Let her go through the pain and keep yourself out of it. BUT one thing though....
by her "clit-ty litter" getting pierced,she will be aroused alot because the sensation it gives once it is healed.So you will benefit from her doing this.You piercing your man"hood" is strictly up to you.I can't speak for the pain it will cause you cuz I am a female.Enjoy !!!!

Answer 6

Never go against your better judgement just to please someone else! If you do not wish to get pierced then just gently tell your fiance your wish to remain unpierced. Or if you still aren't sure just let her know you need more time to think about it. Just like you said "Its her body", she should have the same consideration for your body! On another note, my neighbor has one and he said it wasn't that painful, but then again he could be trying to sound tough!

Answer 7

If she was intend to jump off a cliff, would you join her just because she asks you to?
Any piercing anywhere on your body invites infections.
I believe in making myself as healthy as I can, anything in the opposite direction will get an emphatic NO

Answer 8

This is like getting a tattoo of the person that you LOVE and then they dump you. If you r not comfortable about doing this than DON'T. If she loves you the same way she will not put this much pressure on you to do this. It is your body not hers and what she does is fine.

Answer 9

DONT DO IT.. if you dont want to do it then dont.. i mean do what makes you comfortable.. you cant always live to please others.. you have to think of urself sometimes.. just explain that you love her and all but thats not something you want to do.. i believe that god gave you one body and you should return it the way he gave it to you.. you can do what you please but i wouldnt if i were you.. im pretty sure that if you two love each other then she will understand if u explain

Answer 10

forget that get your scrotum done instead it doesnt hurt as much and feels real good after it heals. Which is only a few weeks compaired to the other one

Answer 11

tell her how you feel minus the whole would chop off arm bit (she might take advantage there) tell her you refuse to do it.