Just curious, I am in my thirties, never had trouble getting guys, happily married to a great husband. I have always been on the heavy side, (not over 200 lbs.) My question is , Do guys ever really find heavier women attractive, sexy and desireable or are they aways looking at her skinny friends thinking I wish my wife looked like that?
2006-07-26 11:36:57 · 6 answers · asked by tiny rain drops 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you kidding--I've heard of website and magazines that are for men who ONLY want to look at heavier women. A female friend of mine, who is all of 112 lbs, found such a magazine hidden by her significant other--imagine her reaction!
2006-07-26 11:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, DOES YOUR HUSBAND FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE. You need not worry about OTHER guys' opinions especially if you're happily married, outside curiousity can kill a marriage. Ask your husband if there's anything you can do to make yourself more attractive to HIM. It's not about FINDING someone to please, it's about pleasing your spouse, goes both ways.Since there's a group of people at our house & people interpet the question differntly, here's another answer, heck yeah, everybody has different taste. Watch the movie "Bringing down the House" with Steve Martin & Queen Latifah.
2006-07-26 12:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by romieme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just want the same things that women do.
Trust, Honesty, Respect, Caring, Sharing, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor, and Unconditional Love.
When we look at other women we are in relief that we don't have to do the dating singles scene EVER again . Now that is a nice feeling. It's alot of work, and it costs alot of money!
2006-07-26 11:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all a personal taste thing. For me, I NEVER, EVER wish my wife looked like anyone else.
that said, however, I will always look at attractive females. My particular taste is for slender, in-shape appearing women.
Others, I know, have a taste for larger women.
2006-07-26 11:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. However, there WILL be a time where a guy will look at a younger, more attractive, thinner, or larger chested woman and wish that his wife looked like that. It's wired into our brains.
2006-07-26 11:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different.
I myself will only indulge women who weigh at least 40 lbs lighter than me.
BTW: I'm 6'1", 200 lbs (10% bodyfat)
2006-07-26 11:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋