My best friend's fell head over heels for a fellow student and made big plans to finally ask her out on a special romantic date. However, he found out that she's into some things that bother him personally. For example, she likes ballroom dancing and it's a bad memory for him because his grandfather used to run a ballroom dancehall but was mentally imbalanced and lost the family business due to scandal and debt, leaving his grandmother impoverished, and this girl likes scuba diving too, but my friend's uncle recently died from using inferior scuba gear and left the family with his unpaid debts and funeral costs. My friend thinks this might make him too uncomfortable to overcome and should he simply cancel his plans to ask her out and move on to someone with different interests?
2006-07-26 11:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by HisChamp1 5 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ South Africa
are you serious? Is this a joke....?
2006-07-28 23:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by agliotti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to become stronger
and learn from wha thas already happened
and be the warrior that he is within.
Do not allow the possibility of true love
to pass him by.
The card of heartache
can be a new card
find that inner strength
that separates the men from the boys.
Learn how to hang on to a memory by making it better
be the best ballroom dancer ever.
For he is familier with what he knows
Then test all equipment b4 using .
He will not make
the same mistakes
for he is learning from mistakes.
If ever your friend should like to get into a buisness
get into one with well known people
that are Christains
who love God
and he will know them by their fruit
.
Encourage him to work with himself
and become that dynamic person
that truly is within.
2006-07-27 14:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious??.... You're not serious? Seems to me like there's been financial trouble in this family long before this girl came along. What happens to the next girl that comes along that like ballroom dancing & scuba? Dump her too?
2006-07-27 00:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by kalahari tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before he even say a word to a poor girl, he must establish within himself if he's going to cope with the revival of his old sad memories. If he thinks he might not cope, then he must not even bother to say anything to a girl because that might lead to a very short term relationship, breaking an innocent girl's heart.
2006-07-27 23:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Diezel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, the one thing most well raised South African girls do best is understand. The truth will not hurt. If she truly likes him then she will be understanding and we definately love the type that are honest and upfront.
2006-08-01 23:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by trace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to get over his fears or its going to bug him for the rest of his life. If he really likes her he must explain the situation to her so she can be understanding and then take it from there. If he is really head over heels for her he will get some balls and ask her out.
2006-07-27 04:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a miss and get a pet instead. It will be more faithful and intelligent.
2006-07-28 03:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to umm.................... get over it. these are trival things to be worrying over. the only things he needs to be worrying over is weather it hppens again and he can do that by dating here and confronting then controlling his fears.
2006-07-26 18:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her
2006-07-26 18:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlucky family , but Ur friend need a doctor..... tell him grow up
2006-08-01 23:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by queeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and look for another babe your speed.
2006-07-26 20:30:13 · answer #11 · answered by sargejbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋