i just watched "Little Manhattan" And i was just wondering , is there a thing called love really ?? , sometimes i feel that it never existed , or it is like a dying Ember , Only memories remain , Well , the question is , am i that pathetic ? , is the Defect in me , or in this crazy world , alot of questions going in my mind , and still cant understand nothing ,
2006-07-26 11:07:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Start looking for love in the little things in life. Two people exchanging a hand-shake, hug, kisses. These could be between a dad and son, or two sisters, or friends. Love is in all the kindness that is around us. Too often, love is so common that we forget to notice it fills every space we move through. Once this happens, it's easier to see the abnormal --- or acts of unkindness.
It actually sounds like you're dealing with love you've given but has been "rejected" by the one you love ... which hurts but you must remember that there is so much more to love. You very act of repairing yourself is love in itself working. Again, this is so hard to give credit for since it is almost natural ... but stop and give yourself credit for being able to repair your own broken heart, for that really is powerful love there.
2006-07-26 11:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The defect is in you.
You are missing the forrest for the trees.
Love is all around you, just sit back and watch it for a while it's pattern will begin to make sense. When it does try and replicate the pattern between you and others.
It is that simple.
As for the embers, you can always look back on them and hopefully find a spark to light another fire with. Sometimes you have to poke at them to see this but it is true.
2006-07-26 18:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think you've got it backwards. Love is an energy source. It can't die. You may not be consciously aware of it in your life, but it is always here, always connecting us. It is blinded by fear and hatred though. I try not to let these energies into my life and to allow only love. You have the choice. You don't have to let it be made for you. Choose love. Hokey as that may sound, it is your choice. If only love for yourself.
There's nothing wrong with you. We all go through periods of doubt and questioning and fear. Just don't allow it to overtake you.
Sendin you peace, love, light and blessings with this message!
2006-07-26 18:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not pathetic just probably fed up with it all. then in a little while it will be clear until the next evil person comes along and makes you question it once more. Love is just a big unattainable pain in the ***.
2006-07-26 18:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be glad that u dont experience the it will triumph over you, making your dreams to reality. then u know what love is really all about
2006-07-26 19:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋