2006-07-26 11:05:13 · 18 answers · asked by k j 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There is absolutely nothing wrong with two people who truly love and trust each other engaging in a little crazy fun behavior in the bedroom. They are consenting adults and aren't hurting anyone. It's not a choice every couple makes because it takes more trust than many of us have, but it's not up to us to judge it as inherantly Right or Wrong.
2006-07-26 11:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can love someone enough to marry them and for some unknown reason allow other people to share the most precious moments you have. I think that makes for trouble and jealousy. And it is wrong because you have no idea for sure, what the other couple has been doing or in this case who they have been doing. In this day and age with all the sexually transmitted diseases, it is a very dangerous game they are playing. There are a thousand ways to spice up a relationship, I think you should let them know that.
2006-07-26 11:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being a Democrat I have an open mind, so in my book there is nothing wrong with swinging, as long as both partners concent to it. Of course the repukes would say that it's immoral, and that family values are declining, and therefore you will go to hell, yeah right! LMAO at repukes...let's face it, our society could care less about morality and family values nowdays; what we want is self-gratification and we would do almost anything to achieve that. So I say ''keep on swinging''!!!
2006-07-26 11:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by bull 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your point of view. As long as you brother and his wife are 100% in agreement on doing this and is happy than I don't see what the problem is. Also I hope they are using condoms. While you might not be into swinging (I am not) that doesn't mean it doesn't work for other couples. You just have to be in agreement 100% whether you choose to swing or be monogomous.
2006-07-26 11:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear its mainly guys that are stubby wanting their wife to have it good. They dream that it was them plowing their wife doggystyle harder and longer than they ever could. Nothing is wrong with it if you can accept your other having better sex infront of you with a diff person and knowing you could never be better. If that dont bother you, then nothings wrong, and nothings wrong as long as you dont get something you cant scratch off.
If it doesnt bother them, then its ok.
if it affects how they act in everyday life... then its not..
I couldnt even say that is accurate...
its mainly just an observation
2006-07-26 21:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by red_samurai_dragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It boils down to confidence with yourself and your partner. Women are the boss in the lifestyle. For us it is a real kick and brings us closer. We have seen it go the other way. Just like skydiving it is not for everybody but does not make it wrong.
2006-07-27 05:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if that is what both the couple wants and they are okay with it. Then no, there is not problem. However, that is not something I could do because I'm a jealous person. But if that okay with them then good for them, also as long as the kids don't know so that they don't look bad upon them.
2006-07-26 11:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Vero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't my place to judge but my thought is that marriage (especially) is supposed to be monogamous. So anytime you bring anyone else into that part of a relationship is wrong. I would think it would eventually cause problems.
2006-07-26 11:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by wbball44co 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the life they chose, however, there are incurable decease that would make it so wrong if one of them ever catch it.
2006-07-26 11:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Farani P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it's wrong.
if you want to play around with other people, why be married.
2006-07-26 11:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋