2006-07-26 10:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is a real problem for a lot of girls.
Despite what most men think about their abilities, most of them could use some serious pointers – especially because they tent to forget that every girl is a little different, and what drove their last girlfriend crazy might be uncomfortable for the next one.
There are a couple of things you can try:
The first one, and the best one, is to show him what you like. You need to masturbate for him. Tell him that he can’t touch, he can only watch. Not only is it a HUGE turn on for him (to say nothing of you) but he gets to see exactly how you like to be touched.
Second – is batting practice. A guy can never learn to use the equipment, unless he has the opportunity to spend some time getting to know it – which means that you have to be comfortable enough with him to let him spend some time exploring – (I guarantee he is ready to go) and be open minded – he may be able to discover something you never knew about.
Third – Faking it. NEVER fake it. When you fake it, what you are telling the guy, is that the thing he was doing was driving you WILD, and is JUST the thing you need to get off. When in truth, it was probably something you wish he would not do again. But what do you think he is going to do again next time? That is right – the thing that drives you wild and gets you off. That thing you hate, that you have taught him that you love.
Fourth – is communication – which is what all of these are about really – whether he is watching you masturbate or discovering your body he is constantly receiving messages – make sure they are the right ones. But also – and more obviously – just tell him what you like. I guarantee he will enjoy hearing about it – especially if you make a sexy flirty game of it. Whisper in his ear when you two are out at dinner “you know, I am thinking about that thing you did to me last night and I am getting so wet” or “I wonder if you know how much I like it when a guy does ______ to me...” and watch the sparks fly.
Finally, don’t feel bad – MOST girls can’t achieve orgasm from penetration alone, and need to have some direct clitoral stimulation in addition to whatever sort of other stimulation they are receiving. Just let you guy know that. Most guys – particularly young guys – are not aware of this.
2006-07-26 11:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by ***** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur not aroused enough, u need more foreplay, more going down on u, more passion and think about stuff that turns u on it will help also sometimes if they (men) finish too fast they dont let u have an orgasm tell him to think of halo or something so he can last longer , that works with us
2006-07-26 11:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't all the time. You have to show him what the things are he needs to do to send you over the edge.
2006-07-26 11:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More foreplay, and he needs a better understanding of female anatomy.
2006-07-26 11:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world, not all sexually acts end in you having an orgasm. Just take your time and enjoy what you do get( a good aerobic workout ! BOUNCE WITH IT! ROLL WITH IT! OR JUST LET HIM ORAL WITH IT!
2006-07-26 11:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ms New Booty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not doing his job. Tell him, "i Haven orgasmed, try harder wimp" then slam him on the bed and take control until you've orgasmed.
2006-07-26 11:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by NNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times you can have stress and that will do it and you may not be in the mood at the time it dose happen.
2006-07-26 11:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by LENORE P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your mind is on something else
2006-07-26 11:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he aint doing it right sweety!
2006-07-26 11:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by D J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont love him
2006-07-26 11:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋