actually going nuts is not the word for it i dunno what to do anymore i still try and go out on weekends but my boyfriend tries to make me feel guilty for doing so .... i think i have the right considering i clean ...cook... laundry full time job and kids mabey i am being selfish i dunno i do know that i am tired tired tired and dont know what to do anymore about it ?????/
2006-07-26 10:38:42 · 9 answers · asked by Jaylynn N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't let him make you feel guilty.You deserve and need that night or two out.Just go and have fun!
2006-07-26 10:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 20⤊ 4⤋
He is possessive I have the same type of guy and I told him when I move you cant move with me and he is not allowed to know where im moving to because i dont want no drama brought to my new house. But he is just being lazy and that is how most guys are these days they dont want to cook, clean or spend time with the kids, does he have a job or does he play with his friends all the time like my guy does. That is why I am moving without him because I am tired also. Maybe you should just move on you know it will help your sanity and help you feel like a lot of weight is off your shoulders that is what im about to do I have already really stopped caring thats why he is not going with me. But it is your decision this is just a little advice from a person with a similar situation. (He aint going to change until he ready) Always keep that in mind.
2006-07-26 17:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by thugangel19842002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like alot people i know of. Do know that if you do nothing, nothing will change. you have 2 options, 1 is to rely on yourself, 1 is to rely on another. If you choose the first, which i prefer, you should contact me and I'll show you how to build your business in a few years on top of your busy schedule. If you choose 2, ditch the bf and arrange your time better, so you may find a better one.
2006-07-26 17:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been mature enough to realize once you have kids, your life is not your own and you should be sacrificing your own needs gladly. If you had a husband, you should be doing that for him too - as he would to you. I'm sorry you feel stressed, but perhaps some maturity and organization would help you deal with things better. Do you have a mom who would help you out? Older sisters?
2006-07-26 17:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do about it, and if I don't miss my guess, all your answers, will be the same, dump the bum.
Life is too short, to put up with his abuse, and that's what it amounts to.
Lincoln, freed the slaves, but you will have to do that yourself.
You deserve more, for yourself, so find a boyfriend, that will help and take you out and be good to you.
They are out there, but you will never find one, with that lump of clay you have now, hanging around your neck.
Good luck, and do it, and do it soon.
2006-07-26 17:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new boyfriend..
2006-07-26 17:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you do???.......................say bye bye to your bf and get a new one...not worth it. Setting the wrong examples for the kids.
2006-07-26 17:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by GrownAndSexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-07-26 17:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by dawngy04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they his kids?
2006-07-26 17:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋