so i go online today,and my girl friend has not quite set it up properly,cause when i go to check my mail on my site, i get her in-box. Well today i see she's got free credits on lavalife,a dating site.
what do i do?
2006-07-26 10:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely talk to her about it!
There could be a reasonable answerr for it.
I get lots of junkmail that I never wanted
and I'm sure my hubby would be offended if he saw.
So I just delete them and go my merry way.
But if worse comes to worst,
then at least you know now
instead of later on down the road!
2006-07-26 10:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by divalicious 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes sites like that give out free spam promotions. I would check her screen name and see if there is any activity - then bring it up.
How long have you been dating? If it's only a few months...who cares...you're dating - she's allowed to look around until you guys make a commitment.
2006-07-26 17:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it, don't confront her. She is your girlfriend and not your wife. She has no obligation of fidelity to you unless you have a ring and a date. These credits could be from before you got serious with her. She may be playing the field in her mind, which shows that there is no total commitment.
2006-07-26 17:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by william m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry usually those ads are junk mail that gets sent out to a lot of people. If she was trying to find insurance she could be put on a mailing list. I wouldn't trip over it at all. Now if you check her outbox and find things that shouldn't be there then you should worry but that dating stuff is junk mail.
2006-07-26 17:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by Young Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's probably looking around... she's not necessarily taken the next step and cheated, but she may be considering it.
If you're not that serious with her, I'd say end the relationship now.
If it is serious, and you do want it to work out, then confront her--soon. You'll be able to tell by her response and body language if she's BS-ing you.
2006-07-26 17:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Quang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i would do. (keep in mind that i have no problem being deceptive so others might disagree). sign up for the same site using an alias she would not know or be able to trace back to you, contact her through the dating site using that alias and see what happens.
2006-07-26 17:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by jude D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating sites usually sent out free stuff just so you'll sign up for their service. Or she is secretly lookin for someone else, if u want send me the e-mail and I'll look into it for ya. send to leaves_of_autumn171311@yahoo.com
2006-07-26 17:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you start imagining things. Go and speak to her and see what is the real deal...
2006-07-26 17:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it, maybe there is a very simple explanation for it.
2006-07-26 17:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her bout it but dont get to crazy prolly junkmail and u should just talk bout it
2006-07-26 17:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋