If a guy and a girl are friends and the girl is maddly in love with the guy but the guy is not interested . Mind you they dated a while ago. the girl changed her mind. and wanted him back ,he dont feel the same ,but values the friendship. To make matters even worse the guy has a girl friend. Who has never met this friend.This causes confusion in the relationship. The girlfriend knows hes not interested and trust him, but feels weird because the female friend wont meet her or set foot in there home because she is jelious???? Can they really be friends or not????
2006-07-26 09:49:49 · 7 answers · asked by Wildflower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From my expierence I would say no. I don't think that after two people have been together in any way, that they can continue to be friends. Especially if the girl keep going after him. If she hasn't got the point, then she won't, and appearently doesn't care if he has a girlfriend.
2006-07-26 09:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decisively NOT!!! That friend needs to be removed, by the guy, from the situation all together! A true friend would be open to the entire situation so obviously she is NOT a true friend. Quick story! Hubby and I moved to a town i lived in in High School. I got back in touch with a friend (another fem) due to a situation that she helped with (she is an insurance agent and that was what we needed). She is a single mom of 2 with bad ex-ralationships all the way around. Also known for dating married men. She wedged herself into our lives and hubby did not see what was truely hapening until we ended up separated and she made her move. Now he feels like an idiot. I get no satisfaction out of being right. None!!!! What I hate is the fact that things worked out the way they did and that she was unworthy of friendship we gave her! The situation was very close and involved. My kids were very close to her. Now they hate her. Now I hate her for her part, hate her for hurting my kids, hate her for manipulating my family, husband and our lives and for making herself unworthy of continued friendship with us! She ruined something that could have been highly valued but was obviously only valued by us enough to prevent anything else. Hubby and I separated for over a year due to all of this. I hate her for that too! her contact me with ME ended the minute we separated. It was him she wanted all along. Now my husband has taken the stand that she was not worth losing his family over. His family and marriage mean more to him than a friendship that is not honest and complete in every way, involving everyone who would be directly affected by said friendship. If she excludes you from the situation then she is NO FRIEND to either of you! He needs to ditch her all together before HE ends up in a situation he did not see coming. And it IS possible that he does NOT see all there is to see. Mine didn't! Not that he is stupid, mine is not...sometimes people just put too much faith in things that are not worthy of it. Odds are that the situation will play out and SOMETHING will happen, as did in my case, that wakes him up to the reality of what is and it causes him to make dramatic changes that will be for the good of those that matter most in the situation. Good luck!
By the way, I moved my family over a thousand miles to get away from her and that whole situation. Drastic times can sometimes call for drastic measures and we all have to do our oart to protect our own, even if no one else knows that is what we are doing!
2006-07-26 10:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl isn't willing to accept the situation that he's not interested in anything other than friednship and meet the new girlfriend and accept her as part of his life I'd say the friendship is dead in the water!
2006-07-26 09:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah Piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking not... "she" is going to drive herself nuts with jealousy and never move on. She should move on and then after she is over him, should she try to have a "just friends" relationship with him. She might possibly ruin the relationship permanently or ruin the relationship he has with his g/f when it wasn't necessary.
2006-07-26 09:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossiable..
but the hope is....
impossiable itself says I M POSSIABLE.
2006-07-26 09:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by confusionofthecreator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-07-26 09:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by naashomwheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ,
2006-07-26 09:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋