I want to be gay so bad, but no matter how hard i try I can't. Advice?
2006-07-26 09:49:10 · 12 answers · asked by safe_sex_sucks_so_screw_someone 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are not gay you can not make yourself be gay. God makes you gay not you. You can not force yourself to be gay.
None of us chooses this.
2006-07-26 09:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just say I think I'll be gay and become gay. You have to feel the curiousity first then the attraction to other men and when this takes place then the rest of the changes will follow.
2006-07-26 10:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you can't? Just have sex with a man, if the thought of it disgusts you, then guess what? You're not gay!
Why would you want to be something you're not?
2006-07-26 09:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be gay?....why are you trying to be something you just are not?....why does it appeal to you so much?....I have a gay brother and a gay sister and they just are and have always been that way it is not something they had to try really hard to do....just be yourself...
2006-07-26 09:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can choose your friends, you can choose your social activities, you can choose to be you, but you cannot choose to be gay anymore than you can choose to be straight. Enjoying and participating the LGTB culture doesn't mean your partners have to be the same sex as you.
2006-07-26 10:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a fantasy to you and not a reality, remember that there is a huge difference. Anyway I hope you find yourself.
2006-07-26 11:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to a gay bar and work yourself from there.
2006-07-26 11:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by boricua82991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you feel a gay lifestyle is more suited to your demeanor?
2006-07-26 09:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that is kinda weird! but uh.. if u really wanna be gay.. then jst start goin after the guys and jst stay away from chicks.. eventually u might start to like it? haha idk! good luck with that one!
2006-07-26 09:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't choose what u are. sorry. you can't be gay.
2006-07-26 09:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Me lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋