Porn Websites!!!!?

Question

I have been married for 9 years, and i am happily married & i think he is to he tells me how much he loves me everyday and i really feel he is as happy as i am, he shows me off to all his friends and we go out often together. But I have found out that when i am either at work or asleep late at night he is always watching Porn sites, I went thru his credit card bill and found out he is paying $6.00 monthly for one site, Now is this bad. I feel like he is being unfaithful to me, but then i think i have to be open minded and realize that it's Ok he is a man after all. Sexually we have a great relatioship he satisfies me often and i do the same for him neither one of us has a problem satisfying the other, I have asked him why he looks @ these sites and he doesn't say anything he just smiles & tells me how much he loves me. SO GUYS why do you do that. Do you think i don't satisfy him & thats why or is it something that guys just do. He does this every,every day. Please tell me why????

Answer 1

You know, before there were porn sites, there were magazines we would buy all the time. Things don't change honey bun. Guys are always wanting to get off, with or without you.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I don't really know how to explain it but I will try the best way I can from a mans point of view. Its kind of like women that go shopping or look through the Sundays papers sales you know that your not going to purchase any thing but yet you find something so exquisite that you long to buy and you know that it will never happen or it is not realistic enough to purchase it. I don't feel there is nothing really wrong with it, I mean I can remember years ago a vast collection of hustler and playboy mags my Dad had and my Mother knew of it and never ever tripped on the fact that he had them that was before the Internet. I do it every now and then. There really is not a real answer. First of all the porn websites have a variety of sexual content. I think he is just a curious horn-ball that likes to surf porn. Just make sure that all he is into is Adult website only! If he is satisfying you and your both clicking sexually you should not have much to worry about. Why don't you ask him to let you join in every now and then and maybe that will ruin the excitement of surfing porn all the time. Just let the boys have there toys.

Answer 4

Us guys have a very difficult time in not looking at the other sex.. ..this was the case when we were 3, 10, 15, 18, 25, 35, etc. ,etc. We are 'wired' to desire women.

This has NOTHING to do w/ our significant others.. ..just because we're married to the hottest of women, keep in mind that prior to our marriage date, we were looking at other girls nearly all our lives.. ..so, you're already 18+ years behind the power curve in terms of changing our habits.

Yes, it is true that some guys can control their libido and not look at women and even more can control their urges to look at porn. However, this is likely very difficult for the avg man to conquer and I don't know if you should take this personally.

The biggest thing is making sure it doesn't interfere with his everyday life and your relationship. ..if he's looking at porn 4 hours/day.. ..than likely its interfering. If he's not paying attention to you in favor of porn, then its interfering. If he's seeking more and more (videos, strip clubs, hookers, etc.) to feed his desires, than its likely interfering.

You may want to encourage him to be open with his 'hobby' so you can more or less monitor the 'severity' of what he's into. Maybe entertain incorporating porn material into your lovemaking to more or less help keep it under control. ...only if your comfortable moaning like they do on porno's though.. .ha. ha. just kidding.

Good luck, hopefully it won't get out of control and create major problems for your relationship.

Answer 5

Porn is a guy thing.

He does it because he's male.And I really find it funny that all the les#o porn is made for guys to watch! He's not going to be unfaithful to you.

He should thank God that he's got such an understanding wife. How did you find out by the way?

We watch it because a, its fun, and b> cos it comes naturally to us ( Its in our jeans! ). Why do more gals than guys like the colour pink? Or pierce their belly buttons?


But paying for porn? That's gross! Eew! What sort of a man would spend money on porn, when everything is freely available?
Ask him to stp paying immediately! The best porn in life is free!

Answer 6

I sounds like times when you're either not around, or when you're asleep and he wouldn't want to wake you, when he feels horny and wants to masturbate. It sounds like you're satisfying him every time you have sex, but he has a high sex drive and gets horny more than once a day. Do you really want to give him a ******** or hand-job several times a day? If you did, he'd probably need to do this less often, but he'd probably still do it.

He's not being unfaithful -- the pictures are just pictures, he's not having an emotionaly relationship with them, he's just using them to get off.

And as those sites go, $6.00 and month is cheap -- they're typically more like $25-$30 a month, it sounds like your husband is being frugal.

Answer 7

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT AND HE IS PROBABLY TELLING YOU THE TRUTH THAT HE LOVES YOU. IT'S A PART OF A MALE'S NATURAL BEHAVIOUR.ONE OF THE REASONS COULD BE THAT HE HAS SOME FANTASIES HA CAN NOT PRACTICE WITH YOU BECAUSE OF YOU MORALS, BUT IN GENERAL THE MAIN REASON IS MALE PHISIOLOGY THAT TELLS EVERY MALE TO GIVE HIS SEMEN TO AS MANY FEMALES AS POSSIBLE .HE MAY STAY FAITHFUL TO YOU AND LOVE YOU YOUR ENTIRE LIFE BUT IN THE BACK OF HIS MIND HE WILL ALWAYS HAVE THE FEELING THAT HE DID'NT HAVE ENOUGH WOMEN IN HIS LIFE .PORN SITES FOR HIM IS THE WAY TO STAY FAITHFUL TO YOU WHILE HE IS DEALING WITH "NATURE CALLS". IT IS NOT OUR FAULT , IT'S THE WAY ALL MEN ARE CREATED.SO IF YOU LET HIM DO IT OR JUST DO IT TOGETHER HE WILL LOVE YOU MORE AND THIS WILL PREVENT HIM FROM "HAVING FUN ON THE SIDE" .AGAIN, HE PROBABLY DOES LOVE YOU VERY MUCH SO DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THIS PORN SITE THING , BUT MEN WANT UNDERSTANDING AND IF YOU TRY TO UNDERSTAND HIM HE WILL KEEP LOVING YOU.

Answer 8

Hello, i'm a guy
The first thing you have to realize, is that this has nothing to do with you, and wath i mean by this is that it is not because you are not attractive to him, or something like that.

About satisfying, you're husband, that is not the matter eaither, the things is that us guys, like to watch, is kinda natural, we start trying to watch ladies since we are very young, its some kind of sexual curiosity about how women look, and that excite us, cause it is something new. A new experience.

Sometimes we get over it, and some others we don't, i remember my granfather who was about 74 years old before he died, he enjoy watching naked ladies on tv a lot, he even bought playboy channel for him.

As long this kind of behavior starts interfering with your sex life, dont worry about it.

Hope this helps

Answer 9

If his bill totals $6/monthly, you should stop worrying.
Guys like to look at naked women, especially attractive ones.

Of the things a guy could do to strain a relationship, this offense falls in the "misdemeanor" category. Save a confrontation for an offense that merits the relationship "felony" tag.

Answer 10

U ever seen a dog in heat? how many male dogs are following it? As soon as they find another dog in heat they follow it and so on and so on. It is nature for the male to want to sew his seed as much as possible. At least the credit card bill did'nt say $2000 to the chicken ranch. And I would bet you have diddled yourself a little in private also. Are you not satisfied. Don't beat yourself up. Its just the nature of the beast

Answer 11

Because it is not the act of sex that men crave. It is the act of sex with different women. Some older, some younger, some less attractive, some more attractive. Its the idea of being with a different woman that men fantasize about every 20 seconds (or whatever the statistics are).

So, its either looking at porn...but having sex with our significant others....or its having sex with someone else. I suppose you just have to decie which you're willing to live with.