i make sure to do all romance just from morning before bed time in evening i bring her sex films magazines and all to that line i even promise her i wil doher any style she wants but to my suprise she refuse by saying words like am tired sleep i will wake u up or sometimes she say my pen nowdays goes diper than before all this to me i dont understand her .please expert advice me.
2006-07-26 09:22:45 · 13 answers · asked by mandingo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SHE DOESN'T WANT U
2006-07-26 09:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by nic_loves_mcr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I been married for 20 years and have grown 3 children my wife works nights and has done for 15 years and I work 12 hours a day we see each other in between. We talk, we laugh, we kiss, I try to get in to bed a lot but with the kids growing up and work etc... we snach a few minutes here and their but it fun.
When you and your wife stop having fun and what you do stops being fun then it time to think about it, however don't bail out just becouse it not working in bed; talk and kiss and cuddle in this fast life today it to easy to bail out of the rowing boat me I just keep rowing.
Talk to you wife and friend tell them how and what you feel. My wife alway tired but that the fun. life fun, my wife fun.
Hope that little advise helps.
2006-07-26 10:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by crosbynigel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason she makes excuses is that she feels no attraction for you. And the reason for that is your own behaviour ! You sound too submissive,weak and willing to do anything to please her.Women dont like that kind of men! You should be more confident and strong and have your own life.Do your own things, go out on your own, flirt with other girls, have fun , go to gym and shape up .Dont ask sex from her. If you can be like that for a while, she might start feeling attraction for you ; if she does not, then find someone else.
2006-07-26 09:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by palmreader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her feel wanted dont go on about sex all the time its turning her off take time out just the two of you a weekend away make her feel loved.... if this dont work take her down the pub get her pissed and shagg her when she asleep
2006-07-26 11:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by ruth c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me shes getting else where to me. Probably just interested in your bank balance
2006-07-26 10:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by keith_hunter_g7pqb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish you luck but i dont thinks she is happy with you at all.
try telling her what you want to do instead of asking her all the time. but dont force her
if that doesnt work pack your bags
2006-07-26 09:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her somewhere nice and romantic buy her things but don't ask for sex if this doesn't work she either doesn't like you or is going elsewhere sorry
2006-07-26 12:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
romance her all the time, and when you do get lucky be very gentle and put a decent amount of foreplay. remember gentle!!!
2006-07-26 10:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by LR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't understand? that makes 2 of us buster.
She is not a sex machine, that you can switch on and off!!
2006-07-26 09:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Raymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares?
2006-07-26 09:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure its a woman and not pam(spelt palm) you seem to be kidding yourself...carry on fantasising
2006-07-26 11:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by paul s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋