i make sure to do all romance just from morning before bed time in evening i bring her sex films magazines and all to that line i even promise her i wil doher any style she wants but to my suprise she refuse by saying words like am tired sleep i will wake u up or sometimes she say my pen nowdays goes diper than before all this to me i dont understand her .please expert advice me.
2006-07-26 09:19:42 · 23 answers · asked by mandingo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
fast and hard!
2006-07-26 09:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by gertrude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok , you love that woman and you are a nice guy and you would do anything to satisfy her.
I'm sorry to tell you but the strongest feeling she can have for you right now is to feel pity about you.
Why? Because women want someone to look up to, not someone bending and kissing their feet.
I think that it may already be too late for your relationship but here are some advices.
1. Stop any romance immediately!!!
2. Never ask for sex again until she asks for it . When she does refuse at least once.
3. Make her be proud of you or be surprised in a good way by sth you did. You know her so you know what to do. But don't let her believe in any way that you did that for her. You did that because you're a cool guy.
4. Talk about this new girl that you met and has such an interesting personality but you totally don't have any feelings for her.
5. If she starts any fight be very gentle to her but hold on to your position.
I hope you reverse the situation and never NEVER be submissive to a woman again no matter how much you love her, especially if you love her.
2006-07-26 10:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Divra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, those magazines and films don't always excite women the way they do men. Men are visual and enjoy looking at those things. Most women don't.
Several possibilities exist here: It could be that by showing her the films and magazines you are undoing all the romantic things you've done during the day. Sometimes what women need the most is to know they are loved and special and that you respect them and want to treat them like they are fragile and precious to you.
It could also be, if she is a parent or has a job outside the home, that she is truly tired at night and just has no desire to do anything other than sleep.
If she's saying that you "are going too deep" then try being more gentle and use positions that make her comfortable where you are not so deep inside of her.
Also, if she's experiencing discomfort during sex, it could be that she has a medical problem and she should discuss this with her doctor and have an examination to see if perhaps there is a physical reason why she's having this pain or discomfort during sex.
2006-07-26 09:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't you know that women do not buy porno films, sex magazines, and "toys?" men buy them.
men think that women will want them in bed if they are forever erect and want them.
sex for a woman is so different. she needs to be touched, softly, and then kissed, softly and sweetly on her head, nose, cheeks, chin, lips, neck, well before you french kiss.
some men think that they are "relaxing" the woman by poking at her body, believing so falsely (and therefore quite irritably to me) that they are giving her a massage.
if you want to relax her, learn therapeutic massage techniques and tantric sex. as for the headaches, learn how to tug her hair to make the headaches disappear--it will work on you too if you have hair on your head.
kiss her softly all over, even if she tells you she needs to sleep. if you see, though, that she cannot stay awake, let her take a nap for about an hour or two and then awaken her with your seductive kissing and stroking.
this ALWAYS works after you have tenderized her: learn, learn, learn, how to locate her clitoris. when you do, keep the labial lips open so that it is visible to you. either lick and lick it faster and faster or else use your fingers, on the same spot (if she moves just a little bit, adjust where your tongue is or your fingers) until she actually PUSHES your head away and will not allow you to touch her there in any way. then you know you have given her a clitoral orgasm, which will make her want you more than you ever realized.
a woman can only have a clitoral orgasm about once each 8 minutes. you can have fun by taking viagra or levitra so that in between giving her clitoral orgasms on that one part of her body that has 8,000 nerve cells, making it far more sensitive than any part of your own body, you enter her and have intercourse.
if you have fun with the pills, you will be able to become erect many, many times after your first orgasm.
don't forget foreplay and then afterplay. when you've had a lovemaking session, don't turn your back to her and fall asleep. instead, tell her how much you enjoyed her, her, and only her. tell her that she satisfied deep needs in you and ask her if she too was pleased. if she say no, then ask her what will please her, then, learn how and DO do it!
2006-07-26 09:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound a classis male chauvanist who thinks without using his head! I have never met a woman that responds to sex films and magazines ..... is that your idea of romance and foreplay? Your woman is clearly put off by your roughshod ideas and I suspect that you go for physical self-gratification rather than tender love making! And as for that 'deeper' bit ... listen to her .... you are hurting her and she sounds a little scared to tell you.
My advice? Take ten steps back ... apologise to her for your clumsy ways, your lack of sensitivity and the fact that you get F-all right! You have to change what you are and what you do here ... otherwise you will lose her, sexually if not permanently!
Learn how to be tender, soft touches, caressing, kissing, never demand ... let her come to you. Basically start over just like you are learning a new skill ... for that is exactly what you currently don't possess. Learn to make her love you and want to be physical .... show respect at all times ... take passion one little step at a time .... stop thinking about your own d*ck and think more about her personal comfort and safety. If she knows you care, she will warm to you ... currently she is clearly cold in every way. And don't be so graphic with her ... women yearn for romance you know ... do you know what that is? All in all, slow down, be kind, considerate, caring, loving, very gentle, cuddle and cuddle and cuddle ..... it will all come to you ... believe me ......
2006-07-26 09:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dang!me personally after all that I would ask her what is the problem? women do get tired alot but , men do to so ... I suggest just ask her if not tell her you just want some and ask her why you cant get it. If you love her just understand.
2006-07-26 09:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to stop pestering her and stop kissing her @ss. That is what she really wants. Be a man. That is what she needs. Take it or leave it, but don't beg.
2006-07-26 09:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by martin b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, maybe she doesn't like THAT^.. Maybe she likes it if you're a wild beast.. Not caring what she wants.. RP Raping.. That would REALLY HELP..
Don't forget I TOLDJA.
2006-07-26 09:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to be with a woman!
2006-07-26 09:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chicks love ice(hint,hint)
2006-07-26 09:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical woman to me, if your gonna get any,..you'll have to get it else where.
2006-07-26 09:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋