Why is it that attractive men are self absorbed they are full of themselves and don’t want to settle down? I am an attractive female and don’t act like that. Its ridicules especially once you get passed all that they are interesting nice guys why cant they just show that instead of this pathetic exterior?
2006-07-26 09:03:52 · 22 answers · asked by sunnyday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quite the contrary I do not have a specific type I have good and average and un attractive friends but in general I have noticed the better they look they bigger an *** they are.
2006-07-26 09:17:03 · update #1
They can get away with being skanks, and it feeds their ego to have girls all over them. Just one girl is like quitting a fun game for them, so they keep having their fun.
That's what getting old is for. haha. they'll lose their looks someday, and then it'll be a nice wake-up call when all of the nice girls have already settled down with nice boys and they can't find anyone to fawn over them.
2006-07-26 09:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 3 · 23⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes attractive people have their status elevated by society so they act like pompous idiots. This is especially true for men. An attractive man is probably used to women swooning at the sight of him, so he gives them a show. This exterior is often a sign that although a person may have a beautiful outer appearance, inside they are ugly and mean. Some men are just shallow and immature. Whatever the reason, I wish that we could see the essence of a person instead of seeing their shell. I bet that a lot of people would change their opinions on what or who is attractive.
2006-07-26 16:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it is more of a show for their guy friends...and some girls are attracted to what they view as the attractive guy's "confidence"...but it's only a matter of time before they realize it's self-absorption. And sometimes that's all their really is to the guy - they may not go any deeper than their exterior. And sometimes it just takes the right girl to get to their deeper, more important side. And not all attractive men are full of themselves. My boyfriend isn't and he is the most attractive man I've ever met :)
2006-07-26 16:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You evidently haven't met the right attractive man. That would be me. I always have been a one woman man. One woman today, one woman tomorrow, Just kidding. Really. You are not looking in Bars for these guys are you? Guys that go to bars to meet women are just looking for a good time. We are not looking for the (right one) there. We hope to meet the right one, (one to marry) in a place that we would either frequent after marriage, or some place close to home. Like Church, grocery store, hair salon, friends house, neighbors house. You get the picture?
I'm an attractive male, unfortunately I married the wrong one 12 years ago. (I forgave her for the first affair, but this last one...? I just had to end it) But anyway, I met her at my work. Her mother was a customer of mine and that's how we met. She's a 9.5 on a scale of 1 to 10. So I gathered up the courage to ask her out.
That's it! You are just meeting the wrong people at the wrong places. I'll be single soon and back out on the market. I've always been a one woman guy. I only date 9's and up. Just because, that's my preferrance and I'm lucky that I can choose.
2006-07-26 16:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by almondjoy_1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some attractive self absorbed women who are full of themselves and don’t want to settle down........
2006-07-26 16:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're not self absorbed....yet you imply you only date attractive guys.
Sounds superficial to me, no?
Let's see....I'm a hot guy who can date around and have sex with lots of different hot girls. Am I going to settle down when the party is just starting? Or am I going to wait until I'm in my 30's or 40's...when the girls aren't so available to finally pick one?
Think about it. Duuur
2006-07-26 16:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are self absorbed. It's not just the attractive ones.
2006-07-26 16:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women out there that act the same way and I have witnessed this first hand.I have pretty much stopped trying to date because of the way people act and the treatment you get out of them.So I guess there are bad points in men and women but there has got to be a good one out there somewhere.Don't let it stop you from being who you are for you have opened my eyes to a new light.
2006-07-26 16:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by kahmfs74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is hard-wired into our brain. We were designed to mate with more then one female, we like to compete to see who has the best girl, and we have troubles with the idea of limiting our choices.
Our social settings encourage this and yet still asks for women to stay true to their nature.
Bottom line is it is much like a business, if others are interested it is very hard to commit. I am sorry, I wish I had better news. Good luck with your situation.
2006-07-26 16:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by hawk200022000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive men get thrown too many offers so they always think there is something else they may miss if they settle down with one person.
2006-07-26 16:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Rasi E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you generalize over attractive men, so do other generalize over attractive women. Probably they find you full of yourself and absorbed with yourself......?
2006-07-26 16:06:34 · answer #11 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋