why is he doing this. i know for sure that he wont cheat on me by sleeping with someone else. Shud i give him some space and ignore the matter?
2006-07-26 08:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i askd him for his passwords of all his accounts wehn we got married, at first he was v reluctant, then he gave in...now i overheard him tell a friend abt some new account. He is careful and never opens it at home.
2006-07-26 09:40:22 · update #1
i think you are the one with the problem here! You say that you know that he won't cheat on you and yet you feel the need to have absolute control over his life! I can't believe you got all his email address and passwords when you were first married! Maybe he has a private email address that he hasn't told you about because it's all he has for himself!Give the man a break.. give him some space and deal with your trust issues without putting all the onus on your husband to prove that he ISN'T cheating.
2006-07-26 16:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by lila 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
How so you say you know for sure he won't cheat on you just like you knew for sure he would never get an email address behind your back. Don't ignore the facts because if you were so sure you wouldn't be on here asking strangers about this incident. Be true to yourself because your heart already knows the truth, the question should have been what are you going to do about his little secrets, his other little life he is trying to have without you.. I've been where you are and the sooner you accept the truth the sooner you can have a happy peaceful life........... until then have fun in the land of non reality, where everything is roses and rainbows............
2006-07-26 16:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by SweetT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have it for many reasons:
1. he likes to download trila software and needes one
2. he receives information he doesn't want in his regular mail
there may be a hundred reasons. Let me give you some advise: if he is cheating on you, he would do it ayway. Why look for the problem? Let him use his email account. Stop being so nosey and say yes more frequently in the middle of then night when he approaches you and he won't look for anythung elswhere
KitaKat is absolutely right. Great advise
2006-07-26 16:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Big Chief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's how it starts....he is up to no good ! Even if he aint getting his 'ol todger, mental cheating is what will happen.
If he doesn't know you know then I would keep my cards close and just watch what he is doing.
If you have to make a fake ID to see what he is up to then, do it.
It's not a matter of not trusting its just when they hide things that they shouldn't, something isn't right .
I have gone thru this crap for too long and am on top of my husbands BS...just read some of my own questions and you will see your future if you dont do something
2006-07-26 16:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up!! Trust and believe you claim he isnt he sleepyin with someone,"cause you know he wont" do you know how many men and women said that..something is going on you need to ask him if he has nothing to hide whats up with the secret email and password dont be a fool.you can think that your man isnt cheatin..hell anyone can say "oh! i know he wont cheat..lol"yea right,cmon now.like the say if it lookin like a duck and quack like one it is one..so what i'm sayin is the signs are there.allow your self to to see them.or be a fool for him..
2006-07-26 17:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by mztampafin3st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're telling us that you don't have a private Yahoo! account? I have like several for different activities. One for Yahoo sites like this one, one for e-mail and one private one for just a few close friends to keep in touch by. Not to mention an MSN account for those that don't use Yahoo!
Unless money starts disappearing from your accounts or some foreign woman shows up on your doorstep, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Get one for yourself and start having fun.
E-mail me and see how great it is.
YAHOO!
2006-07-26 16:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your relationship... You mean, you ususally keep track of ALL e-mail accounts he has? I have several e-mail accounts - for work, personal, my side business, for survey e-mails, for spam, for various mailing lists I belong to... The list goes on! I don't report all my accounts to my fiancé, it's totally irrelevant information. He doesn't keep track of what I do with my e-mail, and I don't keep track of his (he also has several addresses). But if you guys are so close that you are aware of every little detail in this issue, and he deliberately hid something from you - then I would get suspicious. In and of itself, another e-mail addy means nothing, however.
2006-07-26 16:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a contradictive question. Obviously you know about it or you would not say HE HAS ONE. Have you asked him about it? if so then what does he say? If you trust him then why are you worried about it? I'm not sure what is really going on! Need more information to be able to affectively answer your inquiry.
2006-07-26 16:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you never know for sure if someone would cheat or not. (Trust me on this) Ask him why he needs it. He may be up to something. Don't let it go.
2006-07-26 16:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him and give him space. Let him have his privacy. Because if he's doing anything suspicious, it will come out sooner or later. Got to have trust.
2006-07-26 16:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋